Hi Mommas,
FTM here. I'm almost 39 weeks, and it's a little early to be worrying about going past my due date. However, at my last appointment, my cervix was still closed, no effacement, and baby at -4 pelvic station. My OB brought up induction at 41 weeks. I have Kaiser and, apparently, their policy is to induce at this time if baby doesn't come on his/her own. She mentioned they'd likely break my water and put me on pitocin. I just flat out don't want to do this. Can I say no? Anyone else had any experience with this?
Thanks for your help!
Re: Have you ever 'just said NO' to induction?
Just FYI, there are studies finding that inducing at 41 weeks results in better outcomes and fewer cesareans than waiting until 42 weeks. This is why a lot of doctors and hospitals encourage inducing at 41. Just something for you to consider.
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You can refuse any medical test/intervention, including an induction. You may just get a lot of pressure from your provider, but in the end they can't make you do anything. I have heard stories of people simply not showing up at the hospital for their inductions. I wouldn't downright refuse an induction, but I would ask for more tests to get more information on how your baby is doing. In Bradley classes, we were taught to ask things like "what's the risk of the intervention"? "What's the risk of NOT having the intervention?" etc.
Here's my experience:
My midwife recommended an induction at 40 weeks because I had a history of pre-existing high blood pressure, and my blood pressure was creeping up (on the lower end of "high"). I felt like the blood pressure wasn't high enough yet to merit an induction without some other sign that the baby was better on the outside than the inside.
We didn't refuse the induction, but we did ask for additional testing to see how the baby was doing before agreeing to an induction. We had a non-stress test and an ultra sound. The non-stress test was inconclusive because DS was "sleeping" and refused to move at 8 am. The ultra sound showed that my fluid levels were low and my placenta looked like it was "aging" (I can't remember what the term was they used). I still wasn't comfortable with an induction, but after those tests, I felt like I could be irresponsible if I didn't have the induction. I felt like the decision to have an induction was based on my actual situation and the state of the baby/placenta - not on an arbitrary "rule" the midwives/OB had about when to induce.
In the end, like 4 hours after agreeing to the induction, my labor started on its own at 38 weeks, 5 days (2 days before the scheduled induction). I just got lucky that I went into labor when I did (I was only less than 1 cm dialated earlier in the day). My placenta was apparently 1/2 the size it should have been, and I think there was a good medical reason for the induction in my case.
Regarding induction, you can absolutely refuse or specify which techniques you are comfortable with. And your amount of dilation/effacement is not even remotely indicative of when you will deliver, so I find it weird that your ob would bring it up.
For what it's worth, I was induced with my first, and I can tell you there is a huge difference in intensity between Pit contractions with intact water and Pit contractions with your water broken. If I were in your shoes I would absolutely not let them break my water, even if I accepted the Pitocin.
That being said, I've had Kaiser for many years and I have no complaints. It hasn't been difficult for me to get treatment for anything I've needed.
B born 7/15/13, C born 3/2/15, #3 on the way May '17
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I said no to induction with my first baby. I knew when I ovulated and it put my due date 5 days later than what they had. The early ultrasound even backed me up, but they still refused to change it. Once I was "overdue" they kept crying induction and I said no, absolutely not.
We did the non stress test twice that week and that gave everyone piece of mind. I'm glad I waited because my water broke on it's own and I had a pretty easy labor.
With my second two I flat out told them, unless they can prove to me medically that I need one it is not on the table.
I think it is completely unethical for doctors to put women who are 40 weeks+ pregnant under so much stress trying to get their baby's out because of the threat of induction. It makes it hard for women who really need them, to trust their doctors.
Good luck to you!
Natural M/c 12/13/08 at 8w5d
Oh also it doesn't matter what state your cervix etc... are in. My body went from 0dialation to my water breaking with my first. With the 2nd two, I was only like 1 centimeter and went into full blown labor.
If you do decide on induction, like the other ladies said, know your options. YOU choose how you are induced, not the doctor. YOU are the customer remember. Also, you want to make sure you have a high bishop score, that will make your induction more successful.
Natural M/c 12/13/08 at 8w5d
B born 7/15/13, C born 3/2/15, #3 on the way May '17
I’m a modern man, a man for the millennium. Digital and smoke free. A diversified multi-cultural, post-modern deconstruction that is anatomically and ecologically incorrect. I’ve been up linked and downloaded, I’ve been inputted and outsourced, I know the upside of downsizing, I know the downside of upgrading. I’m a high-tech low-life. A cutting edge, state-of-the-art bi-coastal multi-tasker and I can give you a gigabyte in a nanosecond! I’m new wave, but I’m old school and my inner child is outward bound. I’m a hot-wired, heat seeking, warm-hearted cool customer, voice activated and bio-degradable. I interface with my database, my database is in cyberspace, so I’m interactive, I’m hyperactive and from time to time I’m radioactive.