February 2015 Moms

UPDATE: Insurance rant and tears

WanderingAWanderingA member
edited August 2014 in February 2015 Moms
I'm sorry, everyone, I just need to rant and cry here.

My husband is self-employed so we have private insurance and have been paying about $650 month for our family of three.  However, about a month and a half ago we got notice from our insurer that our plan was being discontinued because they did not comply with ACA and that meant we would have to find a new plan.  After jumping through flaming hoops for the past month to get them our paperwork I finally called back this morning and we got approved.  My husband applies for a 73% cost share plan which is great, but because I am pregnant I can only qualify for Medicaid.  Our daughter only applies for a state-funded childs care program (basically, kids Medicaid). 

The birth center that I was planning on giving birth at is located in a different state so they can not accept my Medicaid coverage.  My pediatrician does not accept the children's care program.  So basically, I'm fucked.  I'm going to either have to find a home birth midwife who can take me on and pay a ton of money to her, or go outside of insurance and pay a ton to the birth center (over 5K).  I don't even know what we're going to do about a Pediatrician. 

This was supposed to be my relaxing day with my mom watching Adeline so I could get homework done but now I feel sick to my stomach and am fighting back tears.


**So, after re-reading the ACA website where it clearly says that private insurers can't turn you down for pregnancy, I called our health connection department and spoke to someone different who told me that I do not have use Medicaid despite what the previous woman told me.  I kind of want to punch dispatcher #1 for telling me that was my only option.  We will not qualify for any reduced rate because we are turning down Medicaid for my daughter and myself, but we should be able to at least find a more affordable plan for our family and I won't have to change providers.  Once baby #2 is born we can re-apply again (oh joy) and will most likely qualify for reduced rates.  What a pain in the ass.  I'm really grateful that our country is making steps in the right direction towards coverage for all, but it seems like the system still needs a lot of work.**
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Re: UPDATE: Insurance rant and tears

  • Can't you deliver at a hospital? I mean, it may not be what you wanted, and I'm sorry for that, but at least you do have access to health insurance.
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  • I'm so sorry - believe me, I am no stranger to insurance nightmares. Are there no in-network hospitals/OBs/Peds you can go to?
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  • Sorry to hear this.

    Maybe a more constructive place to start would be to accept that you might not get healthcare from where you wanted and start making lists of where your new plans ARE accepted.

    Certainly there must be more options than a home midwife that is covered by Medicaid!

    Aren't there GPs that can care for your child that take Medicaid?

    I'm sorry you're disappointed. The US healthcare system is really f-ed up!
  • @ducktale - Yes, I could.  I am grateful to have any coverage at all, but the reason that I give birth at the birth center is that I have severe anxiety over medical facilities and I don't want that during birth.  We are fortunate enough that we can afford to pay either the birth center or the midwife, it's just a huge blow out of left field to me.
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  • There's absolutely no way the birth center will accept the md insurance? I go between pa and de all the time (my ob and hospital are in pa but my pediatrician's office is in de) usually around here I thought they were pretty good about switching states.. especially de since its like 4 feet big.
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  • I wish @mandamoocie - Medicaid is exclusive to the state that it is issued because it's state-sponsored. 

    This is all something I can handle and I know it's not the end of the world, I was just so comfortable and happy with the birth center it's hard for me to even fathom going somewhere else.  It also really sucks that I have to find a new pediatrician for Adeline. 
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  • Im sorry hon. That seems like a horrible rule. Heaven forbid something terrible happened to henry and CHOP offered care that nemours doesnt, would that mean he wouldnt get the care he deserved?

    I freaking hate insurance rules in this country.
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  • This may be a strange suggestion.  But does medicaid cover mental health?  Maybe you could see a therapist to work through your anxiety of the hospital.  That way you could deliver somewhere where your medical insurance is accepted.
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  • Are you in PA @wanderingA?

    We're in Southeast PA. DH had just gotten a new job that didn't offer insurance when I found out I was pregnant. I applied through the exchange, and we have an 87% cost sharing plan...for both of us...and they knew I was pregnant when I was applying. 

    During the application process, they asked if I was pregnant. I answered yes, and they said that I may be eligible for Medicaid. However, I told them I was not interested in applying and wanted to be on the same insurance as DH. They said it wasn't a problem.

    I'm not sure if this info is helpful. I'm trying to understand your situation more. Is there a reason you're being forced on Medicaid?

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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this! I had a good cry as a result of NBR insurance issues myself recently.

    Is there a birth center in your state that might take your new insurance? It might be worth looming into. It's not the ideal, but it would be better than paying OOP or going to a hospital that you're not comfortable with.

    Once the baby is born will you and your daughter be eligible for a better insurance plan? If so maybe you could only change pedis temporarily. Good luck!
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  • @WanderingA‌ if there's anything I can do PLEASE let me know. Say you live at my house get on delaware medicaid lol
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  • Ugh that sucks!!! Having to switch Pediatrician is no fun at all. Hopefully you can find someone else you love just as much. As for the birthing center, are there any in your state? Or a hospital with a birthing center attached?
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  • I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

    Insurance is such a huge pain in the ass, I really hate how the whole system is set up.
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  • I'm not sure what state you live in but I'm an Insurance Agent in CA. it is true what they say that if you are eligible for Medicaid (Medi-cal here in CA) and turn down the coverage because you don't want it you no longer are eligible for subsidies. My suggestion is if you can afford the full premiums to go off the exchange and direct to the carriers as you wont have to deal with doctors who although are contracted by the carriers say they do not want to accept exchange plans. It's a nightmare and I feel for you and would hate to have to pregnant and have to deal with health insurance. Look for an agent in your city. They can take some of that stress off of you and do the research for you!
  • Thank you @kjwats !  So, question for you - are brokers available year round or do they only work during open enrollment?  We are enrolling outside of the open enrollment period because our coverage ends September 1st. 
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  • @WanderingA‌ glad you got some good news.. I was busy hatching an elaborate plan about how you are my au pair and need delaware medicaid cause im a cruel employer who wont provide you anything and A and henry and twins born like a couple weeks apart seperated at birth. But alas, your update is probably the better option.
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  • @mandamoochie - you're the best!  We'll have to get our long-lost-separated-at-birth twins together some time!
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