TTC After a Loss

***Weekend Crazy Train***

This is a thread posted daily for any of us who need to get out our frustrations about waiting to O, the 2WW, or vent about our cycles. If you find yourself checking FF obsessively, MF is getting the best of you, or you just want to pee on all things, let it out here!

In order for the conductors to be better able to help you, please make sure you either have a FF chart link in your sig, or make sure you post a link. Don't chart? You should consider it, not only will it give you a lot more insight to your cycles, but conductors will be able to answer a lot of your questions just by looking at your chart! To learn more about charting, check out the charting course that FF offers:https://www.fertilityfriend.com/courses/


The CT is not the place to post a BFP. If you have a "squinter" or if you have a line that appeared after the time frame, please do not post about it here.  Take a step back from the board, test again with FMU, and good luck!

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Crazy level from 1-10:

CD/DPO: 

Can I just ______ already?!:

Signs/Symptoms:

Explain your Crazy here: 


 

TTC since July 2012 
BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

RE consult: June 2014

DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

Blogging to stay sane

Re: ***Weekend Crazy Train***

  • *bump*

    In case anyone needs to punch a ticket today. :)


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

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  • mlal78 said:
    *waves hi*

    There is a lack of crazy this weekend!

    @mlal78

    *waves back*

     I guess it's a good thing that there's a lack of crazy, right? Hopefully everyone is out and about enjoying their weekends.


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • My crazy is tired. I slept in until 10 and two hours later I feel like I could go back to sleep a few more hours. This Sunday is officially lay on the couch and veg day lol
  • rslh10rslh10 member
    edited August 2014
    I'm currently crazy for reasons not related to TTCAL =))

    ETA- ok kinda I guess? My af showed. Cd 1 was normal, 2 was SO heavy, clots, bright red blood, bled through twice during the day. And cd 3....nada. Today, nada. Wtf, body.
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    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • Oh, okay, I'll punch a ticket.

    Crazy level from 1-10: 4 (so not totally nuts, just irritated)

    CD/DPO: CD 23 (maybe 1-2 DPO)

    Can I just ______ already?!: Get crosshairs on my chart already?

    Signs/Symptoms: I had a positive OPK on CD 21 and 22.

    Explain your Crazy here:
    My crazy is this. I almost always know when I O ... I can feel it - I get pain on which ever side and then the next day my nipples are super sensitive, like where even my bra hurts them. It's always like that for me. That sensitivity usually last 3-4 days. This cycle, I got a definitely negative OPK on CD20. I get a definitely positive OPK on the morning on CD 21 and I get a little bit of a cramp on my right side in my back (which is not normal for me) ... I get another positive OPK in the afternoon (and again the following afternoon) but the next day, no nipple sensitivity. I usually have a slow temp rise after O, so I plugged a number into FF for tomorrow and it gives me crosshairs with a coverline at 97.2 and an O date of CD21.

    So, I'm frustrated. If I really did O on CD21, then our timing was not great. If I O'd on CD22, which is what I think I would have based on when I usually O after getting a positive OPK, then our timing was a little bit better. But I don't know what to make about the lack cramping and the lack of nipple sensitivity. It almost feels like I didn't O to me. So ... long story short - I have no idea what's going on with my body, despite doing OPKs and temping. Ugg. Can you tell I'm a total control freak when it comes to this stuff? :) Now I'm just going to be impatiently waiting to see what my temperature does.
    BFP 3/30/13, MMC and D&C 4/19/13
    BFP 4/8/14, MMC 5/5/14, D&C 5/9/14
    BFP 8/26/14 Due date 5/8/15

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  • I'll hop on too, just to get this thread the crazy it needs

    Crazy level from 1-10:
     6

    CD/DPO: CD 16

    Can I just ______ already?!: I don't even know - can I just O already? Or fastforward two weeks??

    Signs/Symptoms: I had ovulation pain on the 10th, but no clear temp spike yet. Haven't had any EWCM this cycle that I've noticed.  Tender bbs that I'm trying not to get too excited about because that happens a lot before AF.  My 

    Explain your crazy here: I just want to know if I ovulated to know if I even had good chances this cycle.  This is my first time charting, so I think my chart is all messed up.  If I did chart acurately so far, then I'm the messed up one cause my temps are everywhere.  We've been BDing A LOT this cycle so I'm trying to take comfort in knowing that if I did O and just didn't chart it right then we're covered.  I just want to know what's going on!!

    Ashleigh (26) and Darren (26)
    Married 8-10-13
    TTC since February 2014
    BFP #1 4-22-14  EDD 1-1-15
    8w u/s 5-22-14 Baby measuring 6w1d. Heartbeat detected
    Went to Dr. 5-30-14 due to bleeding. Prescribed progesterone
    Went to ER 6-1-14 2:30 AM - diagnosed with incomplete m/c
    6-6-14 natural m/c completed
    10-24-14 BFP #2 EDD 7-6-15 **Please** be our Rainbo

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  • CreechMommy Do you have a link to your chart that we can stalk?
    BFP 3/30/13, MMC and D&C 4/19/13
    BFP 4/8/14, MMC 5/5/14, D&C 5/9/14
    BFP 8/26/14 Due date 5/8/15

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  • Tablefor5Tablefor5 member
    edited August 2014
    @jennadesigns‌ can you post a link to your chart also? I'm mobile so any links in the signatures I can't see :)

    With out looking at your chart I can still say from past experience that your body can gear up to ovulate and even show via OPKs + then a few days later show additional +OPKs. In my case I didn't o that cycle. FX your cycle is Osessful :)
  • BFP 3/30/13, MMC and D&C 4/19/13
    BFP 4/8/14, MMC 5/5/14, D&C 5/9/14
    BFP 8/26/14 Due date 5/8/15

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  • @jennadesigns Here you go :D

    Ashleigh (26) and Darren (26)
    Married 8-10-13
    TTC since February 2014
    BFP #1 4-22-14  EDD 1-1-15
    8w u/s 5-22-14 Baby measuring 6w1d. Heartbeat detected
    Went to Dr. 5-30-14 due to bleeding. Prescribed progesterone
    Went to ER 6-1-14 2:30 AM - diagnosed with incomplete m/c
    6-6-14 natural m/c completed
    10-24-14 BFP #2 EDD 7-6-15 **Please** be our Rainbo

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  • @CreechMommy, I don't think your temps are all over the place. Like I said in January Snowflakes, I'd discard the temps during your period because those are higher, but otherwise, your chart looks fine. I don't think you've ovulated yet, but that doesn't mean you won't.


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • @Fightersince83, I'm sorry your body is being stupid. :(

    If I were you, I'd probably call the RE in the morning to let them know that you've had light bleeding spotting to see if they want to assume it was CD 1 or not.

    FX you're able to get going with testing!


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • Well now I'm even more crazy.  I had what I thought to be ovulation pain on CD 10 and now I'm having the same pain along with some gas pains.  Stupid body.  Now I'm wondering if it really is ovulation pain or something else - please oh please don't let it be another cyst!!!

    Ashleigh (26) and Darren (26)
    Married 8-10-13
    TTC since February 2014
    BFP #1 4-22-14  EDD 1-1-15
    8w u/s 5-22-14 Baby measuring 6w1d. Heartbeat detected
    Went to Dr. 5-30-14 due to bleeding. Prescribed progesterone
    Went to ER 6-1-14 2:30 AM - diagnosed with incomplete m/c
    6-6-14 natural m/c completed
    10-24-14 BFP #2 EDD 7-6-15 **Please** be our Rainbo

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  • Well now I'm even more crazy.  I had what I thought to be ovulation pain on CD 10 and now I'm having the same pain along with some gas pains.  Stupid body.  Now I'm wondering if it really is ovulation pain or something else - please oh please don't let it be another cyst!!!

    @CreechMommy, I try not to read into pains that I get throughout my cycle. I sometimes get pain near one of my ovaries for a week or more leading up to O. I also get pain/cramping after I O. If you're worried it might be a cyst, though, you might want to call your doctor to ask for an ultrasound.


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • Hopping on!

    Crazy level from 1-10:
    6

    CD/DPO: 28/9

    Can I just ______ already?!: I'm not sure!  Stop spotting?

    Signs/Symptoms: Spotting started tonight

    Explain your Crazy here: Spotting started tonight, which usually means AF is coming. But I'm only 9 dpo, so that's weird.  I think that maybe my O date is wrong?  Or I'm hoping it is! 
    We met in middle school. We got married 15 years later in a February blizzard of 2010. 
    TTC since February 2010
    Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
    BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
    BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014

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  • Amybunny30 Thanks! I think we're going to have HIO tonight too ... just got my third day in a row of positive OPKs. I'm getting worn out, lol! I just want my FW to be over already.
    BFP 3/30/13, MMC and D&C 4/19/13
    BFP 4/8/14, MMC 5/5/14, D&C 5/9/14
    BFP 8/26/14 Due date 5/8/15

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  • @Menrandes‌ I hope you're not jumping on the short LP train like a few of us!!! Good luck!
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • @Amybunny30‌ I'm not actually sure! My OB said anything under 10 she wasn't happy with. My LP wasn't short, my body just hates me and didn't feel like giving me a bfp this time lol!
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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    • Everyone Welcom
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge • Animal Snow Interactions
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  • MenrandesMenrandes member
    edited August 2014
    @rslh10

    thanks!
    I hope it's not being short.  I feel like my LP varies a lot more than it should! 
    We met in middle school. We got married 15 years later in a February blizzard of 2010. 
    TTC since February 2010
    Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
    BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
    BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014

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