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I guess it wasn't our time.

bnchase4bnchase4 member
in April 2015 Moms
I know God has a plan and a reason for everything. I just wish some things in his plan for me and my boyfriend didn't hurt so bad. I found out I was going to have a baby at 3 weeks and 6 days along. I was on cloud 9! I told my boyfriend and he was just as excited. Today would have marked 5 weeks and 3 days for my sweet growing angel. But unfortunately, I found clumps of blood. I instantly started crying and tried to call my boyfriend who was working. I called my sister in tears to take me to the hospital. I had an internal and external ultrasound done, a urine test, and a blood test. 4 hours later, he confirmed that I had miscarried my baby. Nothing is worse than hearing those words when that's all you have ever wanted. I have had countless text messages and phone calls from both of our families telling me how sorry they are and how much they love us. We appreciate it all but we just want to mourn our loss beside each other and no one else. I know I will be a great mommy when God allows it but I'm heartbroken that this couldn't be the time.
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  • knitfastdiewarmknitfastdiewarm member
    I am so sorry...that is terrible news. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers
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  • Misskris720Misskris720 member
    So so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts.
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  • inawe07inawe07 member
    I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • mayfateleadyoumayfateleadyou member
    So sorry Hun, just make sure you take the time to mourn that you need.
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  • rosemama116rosemama116 member
    I'm so very sorry for your loss
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  • jlworden710jlworden710 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. Sending hugs

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  • megs12914megs12914 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I am a loss mom as well and I know it is so hard.
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  • crossfit704crossfit704 member
    So sorry.  T&P
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  • sagehens47sagehens47 member
    And you WILL be a great mommy. I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself...
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  • VeggieFanVeggieFan member
    So sorry for your loss
                                                                     
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  • prancerciseprancercise member
    So sorry, sending hugs and comfort
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  • LRL131LRL131 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your boyfriend.

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  • tapiaj52tapiaj52 member
    I'm so sorry. Thinking of you. You will be a great momma one day
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  • fitfam20fitfam20 member
    I am so sorry :(
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  • littlewest1littlewest1 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Take care.

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  • BabiesEverywhereBabiesEverywhere member
    I'm very sorry :(
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  • Smash1215Smash1215 member
    So, so sorry.  Big, huge HUGS!
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  • SimplyRosieSimplyRosie member
    Very sorry for your loss.
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  • jesswein9jesswein9 member
    Sorry for your loss.

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  • wilkat2009wilkat2009 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I have had two and know how hard and heart breaking it can be. Hugs!!
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    So sorry. You are in my prayers!
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  • purple_2012purple_2012 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss!!
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  • lindsayanne14lindsayanne14 member
    I'm so very sorry!

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  • terpamyterpamy member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • isha12345isha12345 member
    sorry on your loss......sure God has plans for us all......when i was pregnant with my first baby i started bleeding one day around 4weeks and i thought it ws a misscarriage,i cried a lot but it wasnt what i ws thinking the bleeding continued for 15days but everything ws alright then .............my baby ws born healthy everything ws well but when he hit 4months he got sick with measels and pneumonia we spent 10 days at the hospital but he didnt recover and unfortunately had to leave us and went to heaven(for sure)............now i wish i had miscarried him so it would not be that hard for me to cope with the grief becoz when you see your baby and spend time with him then its really hard to let go..........may God give u a healthy baby with a long happy life.........ive uploaded a video on youtube"in memory of baby ishaq jani"....chect it out, its about my son.
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    So so so sorry for your loss. Sending my T&Ps with you.
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    So very sorry. Take care of yourself. I hope you can start healing soon.


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  • jezebkjezebk member
    I am so sorry. I am going through the same thing right now so I really feel your pain. Good luck with everything!
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    i'm sorry for your loss.  sounds like you have a great support system around you.  please take care of yourself ((hugs))
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  • dazzld1dazzld1 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers your way during this time.


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  • joanakunzlerjoanakunzler member
    I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope you and your bf can get comfort! God has for sure a good plan for you!
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Take care of yourself.

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  • ConnelljaneConnelljane member
    I am so so sorry for your loss. God has a plan for everyone and there is good coming to you! I can't begin to imagine how you feel but please stay strong as hard as it may be. Thinking of you Hun xxx
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  • mrsIgoemrsIgoe member
    I'm so so sorry for your loss


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  • jackieanddan1989jackieanddan1989 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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    So sorry. :(
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