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Losing my mind here

shelly2314shelly2314 member
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I am 33w2d with di/di girls. We just got out of the hospital b/c I was having serious issues with my BP. Already dealing with GD and now I am on bed rest. I feel like I am losing my mind. I have had a breakdown twice already where I just don't know how much longer I can do this! SIGH, not sure even where to go from here

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Re: Losing my mind here

  • zazu13zazu13 member
    The last few days/weeks are hard. Delivery will be a relief! Hang in there and remember those precious gifts will be more than worth it! Ask for visitors. It's easier when you aren't alone. If you are having bp issues you may be induced early. I had a scheduled induction for 37 weeks but ended up with bedrest & pre-E and induced at 34+6. You are getting close!

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  • diz1313diz1313 member
    I was on bed rest with my singleton.... I remember how crazy making all that noise can be. In one hand you want to keep the baby/s in there for as,long as possible, but on the other hand you just want to be done with it. I remember having to keep my mind occupied so that I didn't keep having mental and hormonal breakdowns. I had books, puzzles, games, movies, and as many visitors as I could get. Anything to help pass the time and help me feel like a person. You are in my thoughts and prayers.... I know how hard this can be.
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  • CNYBride05CNYBride05 member
    edited August 2014
    Check out the high risk board - when I was pg there was a daily bed rest check in. It's hard, but sooooooo worth it, I promise!! I was on bed rest from 21-35 weeks (I think, I've actually blocked out a lot of those details) and delivered at almost 37 weeks. Hang in there!!
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  • shelly2314shelly2314 member
    thanks! trying to do the best I can and not stress out my wife. She is amazing and trying to keep me happy, but I don't want to be a burden either

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  • absolutelymaybeabsolutelymaybe member
    Just wanted to drop in and say sorry you are going through this.

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