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Pissed

Trgree1712Trgree1712 member
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I'm so irritated. So today is my birthday and I was hoping that my husband would make some sort of iniative with either making a nice dinner or taking me somewhere and nothing. No dinner, no card, nothing. He just had the nerve to ask me what I was going to make. Are you freaking kidding me. I threw that jerk a party with all of his friends when I was nine months pregnant with a broken leg and I can't even get him to pick up takeout.
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  • Teresa1896Teresa1896 member
    Did he remember it was your bday?

    Either way, you're totally justified in being pissed. I would raise hell.

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  • nicole mackenzienicole mackenzie member
    My DH sucks at planning birthdays...

    He just doesn't think of those things on his own. I have to tell him specifically what I want for special days.

    Sorry you had a bad day :( hope he makes up for it!
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  • Dixon813Dixon813 member
    Oh, that sucks!!!! I'd be pissed, too!

    Happy birthday! I hope it turns around!
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  • AmberLiz99AmberLiz99 member
    That stinks. I've been with dh for 10 birthdays now, and he's just now getting better at remembering to do something. There's still usually no gift, but he does food. Maybe if you point blank to go get dinner he will.

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  • Trgree1712Trgree1712 member
    After bitching at him he went out and picked up dinner. At least I didn't have to cook. It's so not like him because he is usually pretty thoughtful.
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  • alohamelalohamel member
    This.
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    PUNCH HIM IN THE NECK

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  • Avion22Avion22 member
    Is he always like this?   I mean, if he's normally pretty good with birthdays and planning, then I'd be upset too.   But if he's always like this, then I'm not sure why you thought this year would be different.  Some people (men and women) suck at gifts -- its' just not how they show their love.  Have you read about the five love languages?   Might be worth a read.  If he's not a gift person, and gifts are important to you, then maybe you need to give hints, or even straight up tell him what you want.   

    Still, it sucks that he didn't do anything.  Did he at least say "happy birthday"?
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  • Trgree1712Trgree1712 member
    No I'm not a gift person. He usually will make us reservations somewhere nice or make something special. So it was kind of a surprise that there was none of this. We did talk about it and he knows I was not happy.
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