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My DDs BMB

FlamingemuFlamingemu member
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Seriously. There is a freaking baby boom over there and I am sick of posting the TTC thread every week. Between the round of babies born in the past month and the 5 BFPs this week, I think I need to step back. 

I have never been a bitter betty before, but with each appt that I am no closer to actually TTC, I get more and more bitter. ugh.

Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Kid #2 - maybe???
Diagnosed with Severe Ashermans 
Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
#11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
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Re: My DDs BMB

  • GraceyandTroyGraceyandTroy member
    :(  That's a big reason why I left my BMB a LOOOOOONG time ago.  It was too much and my DS is only 19 mos, lol.  I couldn't really handle even the early ones.  So, I just left. 
    Happily Mrs. C 
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    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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  • annibesannibes member
    I don't think they even had BMBs when DS was born. I'm glad I escaped that- a lot of moms with kids his age are on baby 3 or 4 by now. :(

    I'm with you- I don't want to be bitter but as the years pass its getting hard.
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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Yup. I can relate. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • FlamingemuFlamingemu member
    kikimo327 said:
    I'm in a FB group with some girls from DS's BMB.  It sucks that they are all getting KU'ed, but at the same time, they are very supportive of my struggles with IF.  I sometimes just need to step away for my own sanity.
    They are all supportive of me. A couple of them get the IF issues because they struggled with thier firsts. It still sucks to see a new BFP post every damn week.

    Kid #1 - 09/03/12
    Kid #2 - maybe???
    Diagnosed with Severe Ashermans 
    Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
    #11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
    1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    I'm no longer on my DS's BMB, but I've got a real life baby boom happening, where many of my friends who had kids around the same time DS was born are now pregnant with #2. So I've got that whole "happy for you, sad for me" dichotomy going on. My DH doesn't understand my mixed feelings and just thinks I need to get over it and be happy for people. Again, I am happy for people. Just sad for us that we've had 3 miscarriages and and IF diagnosis while TFAS. 
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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • MoFreeMoFree member
    edited August 2014
    kikimo327 said:
    I'm in a FB group with some girls from DS's BMB.  It sucks that they are all getting KU'ed, but at the same time, they are very supportive of my struggles with IF.  I sometimes just need to step away for my own sanity.

    I hear you A12 soul sister. I just about never post there because the pregnancy and birth announcements are too much.

    I 'm very happy for them, but just about everyone on the SAIF board is pregnant or just had a baby so I feel even more isolated.
    TTC since 3-08 IVF # 1 Dec 2011 BFP DD born at 31 weeks 6-24-12

    FET #1 Dec 2013 BFN

    FET # 2 Feb 2014 BFN

    No more frosties

    IVF #2. September 2014

    PGD yielded 2 perfect 5d blasts

    SET November 9, 2014
    Nov 23, 2014. Another BFN

    Not sure where to go from here.

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  • Bananappeal145Bananappeal145 member
    BFPs never seem to get any easier to hear. :(
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    TTC #2 since 1/1/13

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  • bumpuser6119831bumpuser6119831 member
    MoFree said:


    kikimo327 said:

    I'm in a FB group with some girls from DS's BMB.  It sucks that they are all getting KU'ed, but at the same time, they are very supportive of my struggles with IF.  I sometimes just need to step away for my own sanity.


    I hear you A12 soul sister. I just about never post there because the pregnancy and birth announcements are too much.


    I 'm very happy for them, but just about everyone on the SAIF board is pregnant or just had a baby so I feel even more isolated.

    Reason I finally intro over hear, just mentally exhausted from this
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    DX: Severe MFI 9/1/11
    Because of Undescended testicle at birth
    IVF #1 October BFN; 5 snowbabies
    FET: November/December 2011
    ET: 12/7/11; Beta 1: 12/16/11: 66 Beta 2: 12/19/11: 212! 1st ultrasound 1/3/12! Graduated 1/10/12: heartbeat 160
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