Pregnant after a Loss

AW: Life sucks again (sick pet, not PGAL related)

Can anyone spare some hugs?

Just when I'm breathing easy, enjoying baby kicks and feeling like our luck has finally turned... of course something goes wrong.  My old beagle started having nosebleeds a couple of weeks ago, and we took him in for a bunch of x-rays and tests to find out why.  F'ing Cancer, that's why.  My poor boy.  We lost a beloved cat to Cancer a few years ago, and watching him deteriorate was one of the hardest things I've ever been through.  Of course, now I'm pregnant (and having experienced such a rough road the last couple of years with my losses) I am in no condition to even control my emotions a little, so I'm finding it hard to even look at him without crying.  He seems perfectly fine, and there's no telling for how long.  He'll be fine until he won't basically.  If there were any amount of money that could help him, I would totally spend it, but this appears to be one of those things that I have to accept I'm powerless about.  The only saving grace is that he's had a good long life, and it's not like he's being robbed of too many years anyway.  It's still hard though.  

Anyway, sorry to bring everyone down, but I just needed to vent it out a little.  If you could spare some T&P's for my old boy I would really appreciate it!    

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Re: AW: Life sucks again (sick pet, not PGAL related)

  • I am so sorry. ((((hugs))))

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  • I'm so sorry. Hugs! Its so hard to have a sick pet, no matter how many great years we've had with them.
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  • ((((Hugs)))) for you and ((((hugs)))) for your sweet old boy. I'm so sorry :(.
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  • I'm so sorry. ((Hugs))
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  • I am so sorry. We lost two of our sweet girls to cancer. It is a horrible thing to watch in the end. Try your best to enjoy the time you still have with him because it's precious. Make a list of all the nicknames and the funny things he does.....record him playing and being happy. It'll be something you treasure later when your mind starts to forget little things. My heart is with you as I also am a huge animal lover. I will say a special prayer for your angel.
  • I'm so sorry. Big (((hugs))) to you and your sweet beagle.






     


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  • ((Hugs)) I'm so sorry. The loss of a beloved pet can be so hard to begin with. But then add in everything you've been though and the pregnancy hormones on top of it, it can be unbearable. Take time to grieve this loss. Sometimes all you can do is just give your pup extra love and attention so he knows how much he means to you.
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  • I'm so sorry for that news.  ((hugs))  My furballs are my first babies and that would be hard enough to deal with without all the pregnancy emotions as well.  Enjoy your time with him and it sounds like you've given him a wonderful life.

     

  • I'm so sorry
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  • Sorry Hun:( I know our fur babies are family too! Sending you tons of t&p's for your boy!!
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  • Awww I am so sorry :( all the ((hugs)) coming your way

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  • I am so sorry you got such bad news about your pup.  I know that dogs become part of the family, and it's just hard to watch anything bad happen to them.

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  • ((((HUGS)))) I'm so sorry.  We had a scare with our dog basically almost strangling himself to death and I sobbed for hours over it.  Losing a pet is so incredibly sad and painful.  Hang in there.  Enjoy the time you have left with him.

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  • I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. Having a sick pet is never easy. Big (((hugs)))

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  • I am so sorry! Big ((hugs))
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  • I am so sorry, big ((hugs)).
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  • Thanks everyone for the kind and supportive words! Words alone can't express how much I appreciate you all. I'm so sorry for those of you that are going through, or have ever gone through the same thing. Hugs to you all (and to your fur babies too)!

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    DH:  100% Abnormal Sperm Morphology
     BFP #1 (Surprise!)  "Monkey"- 09/16/2006. DS born 06/01/2007.   
    BFP #2  "Quinn" EDD 06/21/13- MMC @ 8 weeks - Disc. 12/12/12 @ 13w0d 
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  • I'm so sorry to hear about your furbaby. I watched my dog's health decline and it was one of the toughest choices I had to make. He was such a great dog and I still miss him. I am sure your pup knows how much you love him. Sending hugs your way. 
  • I am sorry. Cancer sucks!!!! My little dog died about 4 years ago from lymphoma. We did two rounds of chemo, but her little body just gave up. It's so hard because they are family. Prayers to you and your fur baby!!!
  • It's never easy saying goodbye to a fur baby. I am sorry yours is sick. :( Big ((hugs)). Cancer sucks!
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  • I am so sorry, this is so hard (((hugs)))


                                                         
  • i'm so sorry to hear about your pup.  it sounds like he's had an awesome, long life with you and you're giving him lots of love.  (((hugs)))
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