Hi everyone,
I was wondering if anyone would be willing to share their story of their D&E. I found out today that we have lost our little one at 6 weeks, 2 days. Because I had a fever today my OB has scheduled me for a D&E this upcoming Friday to prevent infection. I was most shocked that while I will be heavily doped up (Adavan and Percocet) I will not be going under Anesthesia. I think that I am the most scared about being awake. Has anyone else gone through this?
Re: Looking for advice on what to expect from D&E
I recently had a D&C, my LO would have been around as far as you, a little less, though I should have been 11 weeks by the time I had the d&c. I was put under though. The wait was hard (I had to be at the hospital 2 hours early, then the surgery was an hour late), getting on the table was probably the hardest part, but they quickly gave me something to help me relax before putting me under.
since I was put under though, I can only tell you about recovery really. I had mild cramping and back pain off and on for about a week. I started spotting around day 4 post d&c and then bleeding day 6-14 post d&c. It was not super heavy bleeding, it was similar to a period.
I was told no sex, tampons etc for 3 weeks after.
Is there a reason your OB is not having you put under? I don't know much about either of those drugs, but I think/hope you would likely be very drowsy and not really aware during the procedure.
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I had a D&E last Thursday and was just sedated (totally out but not general anesthesia, I don't remember a thing). Recovery was pretty easy, very little bleeding. I got a Percocet in the recovery room (which was fab) and then Advil 600 for home. My doctor did prescribe a medicine to take afterwards to cause the uterus to contract. That did cause a few painful cramps but it was bearable.
GL with your procedure and I'm sorry for your loss.
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