Hi Ladies,
I'm wondering if I can get some opinions from you all because I'm not sure if I am over reacting or not.(Sorry in advance, this may be a little long) I had a D&C on Friday after finding out that our baby did not have a heartbeat at 9 weeks. I did not have much bleeding over the weekend and by Sunday I started to feel "not right" (fever/chills etc). So I called my Dr. on Monday morning and they said just to be safe, to come in. So I went in yesterday and the Doctor said she was not surprised to see me. She said that she didn't get nearly as much tissue during the procedure that she expected for doing the procedure on a 9 week fetus, but the surgery room that the procedure room was in did not have an ultrasound machine, so she couldn't check. She did an ultrasound yesterday and she was not surprised to see that there was quite a bit of tissue left in me. She suggested that I take Misoprostol (4 doses every 6 hours starting at 5:00 PM yesterday) I took 2 doses last night and based on my conversation with her, I was expecting to wake up to a lot of blood. When I woke up this morning, there was NOTHING at all!! There was some confusion on how I should take the pill (the pharmacist said that the pills can be taken orally or vaginally, but the dr didn't specify. Of course the office was closed by this time and I couldn't get confirmation) so I just took them orally. When I woke up this morning to no blood, I called the answering service to find out if I should take the 3rd dose vaginally. That was at 6:30 this morning. It is now 9:20 and I JUST got a call back from them that they want to do ANOTHER D&C tomorrow morning! Am I overreacting because I think that there is NO REASON that there should be tissue left!! Why wouldnt she have ordered for an US machine if she KNEW she didnt get as much tissue as she thought she should get. Not to mention, that my insurance is an HDHP to where I have a $2,000 deductible, then it is an 80/20 after that up to a $4500 out of pocket max. So basically I am looking at hitting my $4500 out of pocket max, just from the first surgery alone and she wants to do the procedure AGAIN. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? I dont want to do the procedure again but I dont see any other options.
Re: D&C "Complication"
I cannot offer any advice but I wanted to give hugs!! I hope you can figure something out that won't break the bank. Isn't it shitty how a lot of stuff just comes back to money. Ugh. Life. (((Hugs)))
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It was her job to complete your D&C the first time, and when she knowingly didn't do that she should have informed you immediately. Yes, sometimes a small amount of tissue is left behind, there are lots of those stories here, but she knowingly half assed your surgery and didn't tell you until you had symptoms.
Call the hospital your surgery was at and ask for the patient advocate, explain the situation and ask for advice. ((Hugs)) this is ridiculous, and I'm so sorry.
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Before my D&C, I had to take two doses of miso... totally took them orally because no one told me (nor was it on the script) that they were to be taken vaginally. When my dr asked me how much bleeding I had before surgery and I said none, it was the first thing she asked- "Did you take them vaginally?" If it were me, I would ask to try a second round taking them correctly before jumping the gun on another surgery, as your doctor seems so quick to do.
I also have some retained tissue... not sure if it's as much as yours (probably not), nor did I have any signs of infection. First of all, shame on the doctor for not giving you antibiotics knowing that there was likely tissue remaining. It's the first thing my RE did when he realized I had tissue remaining after a hysteroscopy. He's letting me get a period before considering another D&C to see if I'll pass it on my own. If you do have to get a D&C for your safety (an infection could be serious), I would insist on having one done with a scope/in combination with a hysteroscopy.
Big ((HUGS)) and best wishes.