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Intro!

FinallyHappy84FinallyHappy84 member
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Hi everyone! I wanted to go ahead and introduce myself as I feel this board is going to be an immense support line as all you gals seem really helpful but honest at the same time. I have been and lived with my BF for about a year, I am previously divorced and he's still in middle of a.custody battle with his STBXW and we're expecting our first child together in September. His first child is a little girl who is just wonderful and I hope we get more time with her pending upcoming court date. Anyways I look forward to getting to know you all and be able to support when I can too :-)
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  • cole2144cole2144 member
    Welcome to the board. What is the current custody situation?
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  • FinallyHappy84FinallyHappy84 member
    Thank you :D right now it's pretty basic where we only get her every other weekend and every Wednesday overnight, it's part of pendente lite order they had from over a year ago, and her mom won't budge to allow more time, there was recently a guardian ad litem assigned to the case but hasn't seemed overly concerned with anything we've brought up, we have an at home appt with him I'm a few weeks but I'm curious if it would be okay to ask him what we would like in the custody order and why?
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  • lisap0924lisap0924 member
    welcome and congrats on your pregnancy!

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  • freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member
    Welcome
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  • Mkherren12Mkherren12 member
    Welcome!!
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  • alb2411alb2411 member
    Welcome!
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Dirty lurker here but you just introed on single parents this morning saying your excpecting a little girl are single and you wont be moving home because you have more of a support system where your at.

    So op, whats the truth?
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  • FinallyHappy84FinallyHappy84 member
    @MinnesotaMomma91‌ i will technically be a single mom to my daughter, there will be no actual "father" froma legal or support standpoint just me ( I say we because he's willing to step up to a certain point & is more supportive than my family who said I should get an abortion) but the person I'm dating is going through divorce and child custody issues.

    I apologize for confusion, I get nervous really easy about divulging too much information and if I shouldn't be on one of the boards please let me know I thought it would be okay in my situation and i probably should have explained it better. Again I really am sorry
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Theres no rules about where you can or can not post.
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  • freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member
    @MinnesotaMomma91‌ you are super observant. Never would have picked up on the fact that I posted on this on both boards.

    I tell you, I'm a single mom but relate to blended families because my sons see their dad and one day our family will be blended. Right now it's just broken. But it's definitely best to be honest in both spots @FinallyHappy84‌ . Also some of the single moms are 100% single with no help whatsoever from the BD (super women in my book) and I get great advice from those who have to deal with the birth parent.
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