Can I ask how those of you with a nanny figured out how much to pay. I know it varies by location but I don't know how to determine what is reasonable. I don't know anyone with a nanny so when I ask friends IRL, I get mixed responses regarding offering an hourly rate or negotiating a monthly salary since it will be long-term. With our sitters, we offer a $50 daily flat rate whether it is for 4 hours or 8 hours but they are short-term, as needed.
Full-time daycare ranges from $685 (cheapest) to $850 (most expensive) where I live and home daycare providers are from $25-30 a day but an infant spot, let alone 2 (I'm having twins), are hard to come by.
Thanks.
Re: Nanny pay
My suggestion would be is to get idea of what your range for hourly rate would be (low and highest and post somewhere in the middle to lower side). See what happens, anyone interested and worthwhile will let you know what they think they are worth and it's up to you to decide if you can do it or not. I hope this made sense. GL
We live in a town with a large university, so I'm assuming I'll get plenty of college-aged girls that would probably work for a lower wage. I'm just not sure if they would be able to handle twins. I've thought about maybe hiring 2 of them but I'm not sure if that would be worth my while. One of our regular sitters is a university student. While she is great with my daughter, I find that when we've shared her with another family, she seems to be overwhelmed.
I did look on care.com but it gives me a dollar range to select...I wonder if that is because I just registered for the basic/limited account.
Where I live (HCOL) its btwn $15-18/hr. It depends on number of children and their experience, in my opinion. I think care.com is good for a range, and then go with where you are comfortable. We went the daycare route for 2 reasons. 1) I had 1 week to find a nanny and of the 4 I interviewed none were a fit 2) given our hours, it would have cost us $4k/month and while we can swing it, we did not think it was necessary for sub par care. We are very happy with our daycare and will not be making a switch at this point, though a good nanny is much more convenient in my opinion and would have been worth the cost, had we found someone we loved.
We live in Texas. Compared to other states, I think we're probably at low-medium cost of living.
@librarychica, thanks, that does give a starting/reference point.
My husband's co-worker apparently has a nanny. They live in the smaller town over but pay $250/wk for 3.5 month old twins.
Do all of you report wages to IRS? Does anyone pay under the table? I really hadn't thought about that aspect but I do have an accountant acquaintance that I can ask about ramifications.
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