August 2014 Moms

WTF Sunday

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edited August 2014 in August 2014 Moms
Hope no one minds me starting this. Today's wtf goes to my *awesome* husband (read that highly sarcastic) in agreeing to host ALL of my in-laws a MAXIMUM of two weeks after the baby comes.

They are coming out the week of Labor day, and will be spending Saturday (and 99% positively Saturday night) here. Since this baby shows no inclination of coming any time soon, and the Dr won't even discuss intervention into the 25th, there is a very cod possibility that I may be coming home from the hospital to a house full of people.

I want to cry. Actually, I have been crying. I will get zero help cleaning this house for company, or keeping it clean, and I have to do it massively pregnant and miserably in pain. Even worse, since travel plans have already been made without asking ME, and they all live a significant distance, there is nothing I can do to say no. This. SUCKS.

Edit: okay I counted wrong. If baby comes today, it would be a maximum of 3 weeks out.
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Re: WTF Sunday

  • I don't think I would have anything to compare to yours @tamarar5‌! I hope that things turn out ok for you.
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  • @tamarar5 im sorry girl! That really does suck! 


    Today I woke up at 3;30 with cramps. I had extreme anxiety since BF is 3 1/2 hours away until around 1 this afternoon.,.. finally they stopped. I took a shower to calm down and fell back asleep around 7. But I'm still sick to my stomach and i know I'm fine, and I know all will be perfectly fine once BF is home...just anxiety yo! it sucks! him being gone 4 days and 3 nights was okay until 3;30 this morning, then shit got real! 
  • Been having contraction ~8-9 minutes apart the last 3 afternoons/nights. They go away around 11pm.
    This morning while walking the dog I got SUPER uncomfortable - pressure on my pubic bone, pressure on my colon, sharp hip socket pains, etc. wtf body?? Do something with all this discomfort already! And what does it do? It gives me a ridiculously painful stitch in my side that doesn't go away because the contractions I get during walks are holding it there in place.

    FML. Of course I lay down when I get home and it all subsides... And I'm back to just being uncomfortable and pissy.

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  • Damn girl that sucks. DH would be in the dog house if he did that to me.

    The last 3 days my body has been seeming to gear up for labor and then stop. It is driving me crazy. I am being induced tomorrow and would love for him to come on his own before then.

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  • @tamarar5‌ , that sucks!! I would be furious. I don't really like having people in my house (I don't even like throwing parties, too many people in "my space") I can't even imagine how I'd deal if my in laws came for 3 weeks!! I'd probably go to a hotel Lol I got nothing that even compares.
  • @tamarar5‌ so, so sorry. I would tell him he is on his own for cleaning.

    WTF DH? You finally decide to talk names with me last night. I know you have been avoiding it because your choice is never going to happen. Guess what! It still isn't going to happen. I understand why you want to use Gertrude as a middle name, but no. Just no. And I am not going with some odd spelling of Catherine as a first name because it makes you feel better if I "don't get everything that I want." This is not some silly argument. This is not something to "win." I am not saddling our child with a horrible middle name or a weird spelling so you can win something. You will either accept this, or she will be named after no one. Your grandma didn't even like the fact that her name was gertrude anyway.

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  • @tamarar5‌ that really stinks. I agree you don't want company that soon after baby arrives. Do they realize you will still be healing and sore? Hope it all works out!

    WTF DS why did you have to soak through TWO diapers last night, meaning I had to change your clothes twice? Also how do you know when I've crawled back in bed? You can sleep through me carrying you around, putting you in your cradle, and me going to the bathroom and washing my hands in out master bath but the second I crawl into bed you start screaming? How do you know?!?!
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  • WTF DH, I'm sorry, but are you the pregnant one with hormones stressing you out? Why the hell are you acting like a sullen little bitch? Yesterday we had a couple of friends over, one if which has a toddler and a 4 month old so I figure she knows about car seat installation. Plus she has the same brand as us and she's an engineer! So I suggest to DH that we ask her for help installing since we don't know what we are doing, and our car has no latch system. He declines, then tries just now to install, gets frustrated, and brings everything back into the house and is acting all moody. I show him a list of places we can go to have it checked and the effing moodiness just continues. "Which one should we go to?" "I dunno". Well just pick one and I'll call, dammit! Cause if I pick one and it's too far, then he'll complain.

    I just can't stand it when he gets so sullen. I've told him I just need him to be chill and supportive these last couple of weeks, especially since I've been struggling with high blood pressure. I wish he was better at that.
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  • Another WTF....because of the issues my parents had with BF over the weekend (stated in previous WTF days) BF is now over at my dads having a discussion.  Both of them are in the wrong in certain areas and need to both apologize to each other.


    I'm glad this is happening because the drama does not need to happen right before I have the first grandbaby. But my WTF is I wasn't permitted to go to the discussion so now Im just waiting to hear how it unfolds. Gahh
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    Another WTF....because of the issues my parents had with BF over the weekend (stated in previous WTF days) BF is now over at my dads having a discussion.  Both of them are in the wrong in certain areas and need to both apologize to each other.


    I'm glad this is happening because the drama does not need to happen right before I have the first grandbaby. But my WTF is I wasn't permitted to go to the discussion so now Im just waiting to hear how it unfolds. Gahh
    how can you stand the wait? i'd be nervous and anxiously awaiting news of what happened. i'm sure they'll both be on their best behavior for you though :)
    I anxiety ate four cupcakes waiting...well at least Im blaming anxiety ;) but yes everything went well! they chatted for 1 1/2 hours and it went well. Good men! Im proud! 
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