February 2015 Moms

Home Birth

Has anyone done a water birth? Tips, do's and don't please! I'm considering it!

Re: Home Birth

  • I labored in a tub but had to get out to push (hospital policy, ugh). My advice: have a pillow you won't mind getting wet around the edges. A real pillow, not some plastic bath pillow. I liked leaning over/against/on the side of the tub and the pillow resting on top of the ledge was such a comfort.
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    @ConstanceGoodspeed‌ thank you! Was it a good experience would you do it again?
  • I plan on doing a at home water birth with a midwife.
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    @jaytee16‌ wow! Thanks this helps so much!
  • aybo said:

    @ConstanceGoodspeed‌ thank you! Was it a good experience would you do it again?

    Absolutely. I am planning on using the tub with this labor, too. I couldn't have delivered med-free without it.
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  • I had a water birth with DD at a birth center and highly recommend it. The water is a great pain relief and it allows you to position yourself really easily. I had no idea what position would work best but I ended up crouching with my arms over the side of the tub. I 100% am planning a waterbirth this time too!
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  • This thread is awesome! I'm meeting with a midwife on the 23rd and am definitely considering an at home water birth.
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  • My husband and I have a midwife and we are planning a natural home birth. It is our first, I am very excited and nervous! Thank you for the tub information.
  • I'm so excited that all you ladies get to do this. I'm also jealous though, we live way too far from town for a home birth, and our hospital doesn't offer water baths. Sounds like a wonderful option though! Glad you guys are taking advantage of it!
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  • Try posting on the Natural Birth forum, too. ;-)

    I considered doing home birth, but my apartment walls are so thin it makes me self-conscious just thinking about it. I purposely nixed the idea of a water birth at home early on because I didn't want to risk flooding the apartment below me. (The lady above me used to have a large aquarium. When it leaked it resulted in a bunch of ruined dry wall and an electrical fire inside of my wall. Yikes!) My advice would be, if you are in an apartment, be sure to talk to your community manager to make sure you aren't breaking any rules, because it you are you are liable for damages!!
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  • If my husband wasn't so freaked out I would so have this baby at home.  And if we weren't so far from my hospital.  There is a closer hospital but it doesn't have a nicu, and if you are going to a hospital it's because you need it
  • salbabe79 said:
    If my husband wasn't so freaked out I would so have this baby at home.  And if we weren't so far from my hospital.  There is a closer hospital but it doesn't have a nicu, and if you are going to a hospital it's because you need it
    Truth? I spoke to a home birth CNM, and she said the most common reason for hospital transfer was that the mother was just tired during a long labor. She said in her practice, only about 10-15% of women need to transfer to the hospital, and only something like 2-5% of all of her patients have an emergent transfer. Most women who transfer, at least in her experience, do so because of prolonged labors and exhaustion rather than some emergency requiring the NICU.

    But I agree that if you are going to be in a hospital over a home birth fin case of emergencies, which is what it comes down to for many women, why would you choose one without a NICU? That seems counter intuitive.
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  • DH and I were considering the home birth. I did a bit of research and decided it wasn't for us. It's the 'what if's' that sway me. My first labour was fairly quick and easy with zero issues but I'm just not willing to risk it when minutes count.

    I came across a website called hurt by home birth - the title says it all. These stories while very sad and tragic did not sway me against home birth. I only read a few but it seemed to me that the issues were a result of the actions of the midwife/nurse, people who came highly recommended and were trusted. If you are considering home birth it may be good to read some of these stories, not to sway you against it, but so you can gain some additional information and the signs to look for when things aren't going right. Like with any medical issues we need to be able to advocate for ourselves and not just blindly trust those in charge.
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  • We're planning a home birth if we move in time. The plan is to move by OCT or NOV. If our plan falls through then we'll end up probably at the hospital -- though that is not what I want, but at least the hospital does have access to tubs now.  If we're able to do the home birth with our midwife, I definitely want the birthing tub.  I've never had one before, because the last time I gave birth they weren't all that popular yet. 

    My midwife said the same thing about her transfer rate, which was only about 5%, most of the time it's because mom's too tired or wants drugs, and only a few have actually been an emergency...but she's never lost a either a mom or baby -- which to me is a good sign.  My midwife is also an EMT along with her midwife certifications, which makes me feel even more comfortable with her. 

    From what I've read of stories concerning home births gone wrong, they do all tend to center around a midwife that was simply negligent about complications. It also seems many times the mom's thought something was wrong and rather than listening to their own bodies they kept relying on the midwife to tell them to go to the hospital.  I know full well if I feel like something is wrong, I'm going to go to the hospital, doesn't matter what the midwife says, even though I do trust her, and I have a feeling if I said to her "something is wrong we need to go to the hospital" she'd get me to the hospital. 

    Having gone through two births already, I know how it should go, how a normal birth without any complications feels. And while every pregnancy and birth is different, it's not so different that I wouldn't be able to tell if something was feeling off.  If you're doing a home birth you do have to trust yourself not just your midwife. 
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  • If I lived in a bigger town I would consider it. But I'm too far from a hospital incase something happened.
  • Great tips ladies! Helpful stuff. Did anyone find pushing difficult in a larger tub? I saw one water birth (only one!) and the mom couldn't get good leverage and when a contraction came, she just raised her body out of the water and didn't push. It seemed like the water "ungrounded" her a bit. Any experience with that? Thoughts?
  • I got to watch one in a hospital in nursing school. I have been told it is a lot more comfortable than being in a bed and you can move around to get in a comfortable position which is hard in a bed. Also the warm water helps. The hospital I will be delivering at has nice big tubs so I am going try it! The one I watched she just held on to the people outside of the tub with contractions.
  • Had a home water birth with my last and loved it. Will do it again this time
  • I labored in the tub with both of my girls. The tubs at our hospital were so big I couldn't imagine delivering in one, because I'm only 5'3" and I wouldn't be able to get enough leverage. I loved laboring in it though! The tub had jets and they felt amazing! We have since moved and I know our new hospital has tubs, but I haven't seen them.
    In the state of Nebraska it is a felony for a midwife to deliver a baby at home. I wish I could have a home delivery!
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    Boehrig2 said:

    Great tips ladies! Helpful stuff. Did anyone find pushing difficult in a larger tub? I saw one water birth (only one!) and the mom couldn't get good leverage and when a contraction came, she just raised her body out of the water and didn't push. It seemed like the water "ungrounded" her a bit. Any experience with that? Thoughts?

    That was my experience exactly. Laboring in the tub was wonderful, but I felt really ineffective pushing...too buoyant, no leverage. Having less water in the tub might have helped, but I just got out. Pushing was much, much easier out of the tub for me.
  • There are midwives that will do homebirths you just need to look :)
  • There are midwives that will do homebirths you just need to look :)

    There are midwives that will do homebirths you just need to look :)

    In Nebraska?
  • I plan on a home birth and will have a tub set up for laboring. This is my 2nd child, first home birth/water birth.
  • There are midwives that will do homebirths you just need to look :)
    There are midwives that will do homebirths you just need to look :)
    In Nebraska?
    It isn't legal for midwives to practice home birth in all states. I mean, a woman can have her baby wherever she wants, but if a midwife assists in some states she can be prosecuted. I'm pretty sure Alabama and Nebraska have criminalized attending births at home, but I am not sure if there are more states as well.

    CNMs, midwives who are also registered nurses, can legally practice in all states. CPMs are licensed to practice in only 28 states. CPMs are trained to practice in home births, but some CNMs do as well. Regular direct entry midwives, CMs, are only legally licensed in 3 states. If a woman is not a CNM in those states, even if home birth is legal, she can still get into booku (sp?) trouble for attending births as a medical professional.
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  • I had a home birth with my first, and with this next one we are planning the same. I never used a tub at all the last time, honestly I just didn't feel like it. But having a baby at home is so wonderful and it's so nice to hear so many of you talking about it! :)
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