April 2014 Moms

Idiot husband rant/vent

JessylooJessyloo member
edited August 2014 in April 2014 Moms
Let me just start off by saying that my husband is normally wonderful.  But he is Completely. Effing. Clueless sometimes.
About an hour ago a severe thunderstorm passed through which, unfortunately, spawned a couple of tornadoes.  He FACEBOOK MESSAGED ME to tell me that he heard on the radio there was a tornado at an intersection less than 2 miles from our house.  So that would've meant that I had less than a minute or two to attempt to get our animals and my awkward pregnant self into the closet to take cover.  (Not to mention make room for us in there with all the clutter I've been too lazy to clean up.)
It turns out they reported the wrong intersection and it was actually about 10 miles away, so I was never in any real danger but... is it just me or shouldn't he have cared enough to CALL ME and then stay on the phone until he knew I was safe?  Am I just hormonal or do I have justifiably hurt feelings here?  I mean, I know that I'm hormonal, but my feelings are seriously hurt that he didn't think an effing tornado bearing down on me was worth a freaking phone call.

Edited to add: Totally thought I was on the 3rd trimester board.  No idea how I ended up on this one. Sorry ladies.

Re: Idiot husband rant/vent

  • I can't imagine already being pregnant again and dealing with a 4 month old at the same time as being pregnant so I can imagine how hormonal you would be...just talk to your husband and tell him he should phone instead of using facebook.
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  • My dh would probably just text me. He didn't mean anything by it, it's not a sign that he doesn't love you. I would drop it and move on. Life's too crazy to get mad over things that don't matter. If this is your biggest thing to worry about today count yourself lucky. Now go enjoy your baby and dh and have a great, anger free weekend.
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  • Did you mean to post this on A15? Regardless, yep, your hubs should've called you.

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  • ambarnett1ambarnett1 member
    edited August 2014
    We all have 4 month olds. Are you on the right board? And it looks like you haven't posted much. If you do have a 4 month old and you're pregnant as well than that would have sucked and he should have called.

    Trolling much?

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  • Serenla said:

    I would say if any of us are still pregnant it would most certainly be awkward.

    Was thinking the same thing.....
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  • Serenla said:

    I would say if any of us are still pregnant it would most certainly be awkward.

    I was pretty sure that I was going to be pregnant this long...

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