TTC After a Loss

Introduction

Hi, I just wanted to introduce myself since I am new to the boards. I introduced myself to the miscarriage/loss group, but it was suggested that I may move to this board. DH and I aren't really trying right now because the last loss is so fresh and we are wanting some answers, but we will be trying again. I have read MANY threads, but until recently was not a member. I really felt like I needed people to talk to that have experienced what I have and who could offer great advice to help me on this journey. 

A little about my journey is I have had 4 miscarriages since August (I know it's a lot) and I still have zero answers. All of my losses have been between 4-6 weeks, so they were very early. I have taken progesterone with the last 3 which helps my levels stay high. I have also been tested for blood clotting, thyroid disorders, lupus, diabetes and genetic testing with everything coming back normal. I may have been tested for more, but honestly the tests have all ran together in my mind. I have had ultrasounds done where and they believe everything is normal, but my doctor just scheduled an X-ray to check everything again just to be safe. Honestly, I do not know what my next step is. DH and I are still young (both 26) and have decided to wait until we have more information. I feel lost because I have no control over what happens and I just want answers. I was praying I would have some fixable issue, but every test keeps coming up normal. My next step after the X-ray is to be referred to a specialist which makes me nervous. I know my insurance will not cover most of it and I have no idea what they are going to tell me. After 4 losses without answers I don't know what else can be done. 

I am sorry for the rambling post, but I am looking forward to getting to know all of you, who are on a similar journey as me and hopefully someday we will all have what our hearts desire. 

Re: Introduction

  • I am so sorry for your loss and for the lack of answers. This is a wonderful board. I hope you find the support you need and deserve here. ((Hugs))

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope you get answers soon. Thinking of you as you heal and move forward.
  • I am so sorry for your losses.  I hope you can find some support and comfort here.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
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    edited August 2014
    I'm sorry for your losses but I'm glad you decided to join us here. ((hugs))

    Life is a balance of holding on and letting go.

    BFP #1 05/19/14, EDD 01/19/15, MMC 06/12/14 

     BFP #2 10/10/14, EDD 06/19/15

  • Thank you all!
  • I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.
  • I am so so sorry for your losses.  I hope you can find some answers.  Good luck.



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  • Big hugs. I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
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  • I am so sorry for your loss and the lack of answers. Welcome to the board.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. We seem to be on similar paths right now. I'm fresh off loss # 4, had the full spectrum if RPL testing, and I'm "normal".... I feel I understand where you are and I wish u the very best.

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  • I'm so so sorry for your losses. I hope you are able to get some answers soon. ((Hugs))

    Started TTC Nov. 2011 

    1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d


  • I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome.

    TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 11/22/13 EDD 7/31/14
    MMC 13 weeks - discovered 2/13/14 at 16 weeks - Trisomy 13 - D&C 2/14/14
    BFP #2 10/9/14 EDD 6/22/15
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  • I'm so very sorry for all of your losses. It must be so frustrating and difficult to not have any answers. Wishing you lots of luck and hope that you can find some answers soon. I've just joined the board myself but welcome to the board! I've found amazing comfort and support here..I hope you do too. Hugs.
    TTC since March 2011

    1st BFP - June 5th, 2014 
    (EDD - Feb 8th, 2015)
    MMC/D&C - July 17th, 2014

  • I am so sorry for your losses. This board is an amazing support system. Please stick around & get to know us.
  • I am so very sorry for your losses and struggles.  I hope that you find the comfort and support you are looking for here.  Many, many ((((HUGS)))
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     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

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  • Welcome. I am sorry for your losses.

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  • I'm so very sorry for your losses.  I hope that you find much support and encouragement here. (((hugs)))
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  • Thank you again for making me feel so welcomed! I am looking forward to getting to know you all to offer support and hopefully get some also. I go in for the X-Ray on the 25th to double check that there are not any problems that they may have missed on a regular ultrasound. I am a teacher, so my school year is just beginning and my days have been long. If I am slow to respond I apologize. Again thank you for all the support already! I hope I can give some in return!
  • I'm sorry for your losses. I hope you get some answers. (((Hugs)))
    DH diagnosed with testicular cancer 6/04/10
    Married DH 8/1/11
    7/21/13 SA poor morphology/ low count
    BFP #1 11/18/13, EDD 7/22/14 
    MC Blighted Ovum 12/4/13 @ 7wks
    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. I hope you get some answers! ((((Hugs))))

    Dx: PCOS/Unexplained
    July '13 - Mar '14 - Letrozole and TI - BFN
    April '14 - HSG - All clear - Letrozole, Trigger and IUI - BFP
    May '14 - Miscarriage 5w 3d
    July '14 - Letrozole, Trigger and IUI - BFN

    Aug '14 - Letrozole, Trigger and IUI - BFN

    Sept '14 - Letrozole, Trigger and IUI - BFP

    Beta 1 - 87  Beta 2 - 193  Beta 3 - 441
    SA - All good
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  • So very sorry for your losses. It's so frustrating to not have answers, so I hope these next steps help uncover something or put your mind at ease. Many hugs.
    PCOS & ute crew member
    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
    BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!
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  • I am so sorry for your losses.
  • Very sorry, I hope you can get answers
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