We live 7.5hrs from MIL. We moved to a new house here at the end of May. It was so stressful and H had to go OOT for a week the very next day. MIL invited herself over and got super super pissy when we said no because we weren't settled in and didn't have a place for guests to sleep. We are finally good and now she doesn't want to come, because it isn't on her terms.
This is annoying, but I KNOW this comes with sharing names. She originally came up with our boy name. Charles Gatlin. I liked the flow and meaning behind it but Gatlin was just nms. H was obsessed so I gave it to him. Now she wants us to switch the first and middle name around and if we aren't going to, then we just don't need to waste the middle name on this kid and just save it for our next one. She said the same thing about the nickname (Charlie) we are using for him. We appreciate the name suggestion but if you want to name a kid, you grow it and push it out of your vag. Blah!!
Anyone else have an IL vent?
Wife. Boy mom x5. Expecting #6. Wannabe homesteader.