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one week later...

sugarstar1784sugarstar1784 member
in Late Term and Child Loss
Today is one week away from losing my baby. 
Just wanted to tell someone.
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*Said goodbye to our angel baby July 30. 2014. only had him for 21 weeks in my belly, missing him every day*
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  • msunshine123msunshine123 member
    Big hugs to you. It's not an easy journey we are on. Your son will always be a part of your life and knows the joy and love that you give to him.
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  • Mel&John2013Mel&John2013 member
    The hardest week of your life, we know. I'm so sorry.
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  • bunnybun4bunnybun4 member
    big big ((Hugs))

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    -5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

    11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

    8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

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  • healz413healz413 member
    Thinking of you today.
    ****loss discussed*****

    We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.

    Our IUIs
    with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.

    Our IVFs:
    IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response

    IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
    BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
    2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
    BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
    1st ultrasound (3/6  6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm. 

    ***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***

    FET #1 December 2014
    Intralipid infusion on Dec 10. Transfer of 1 day 3 nine-cell embryo into my uterus on Dec. 19. (acupuncture immediately before and after)
    BFP on Dec. 27; Beta 1 Jan 2 (14dp3dt): 665, Beta 2 Jan 4 (16dp3dt): 1859, Beta 3 Jan 6 (18dp3dt): 4449, Beta 4 Jan 10 (22dp3dt): 12,251.



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  • AshersMom11AshersMom11 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs.

    Asher born February 5, 2011.

    Baby #2 born sleeping at 20 weeks. May 6, 2014.

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  • lexusolsenlexusolsen member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hang in there.
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  • stefugestefuge member
    Lots of ((hugs))
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    Me: 32 DH: 33  High School Sweethearts  Married 5/28/2005
    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
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  • luckyclover0922luckyclover0922 member
    ((Hugs)) to you.

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  • OSUWifey09OSUWifey09 member
    ***SIGGY***


    Sending so many hugs. I wish there was a way I could help ease the pain, because it just sucks. Thinking of you today.






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  • luckyclover0922luckyclover0922 member

    ***SIGGY***

    I am sorry for what you have to go through :(  Please lean on us whenever you need. ((Hugs))

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  • sugarstar1784sugarstar1784 member
    Thank you everyone. It's so good knowing that I'm not alone (although it's horrible because of what you've had to go through). 
    I'm taking all the baby stuff we had been given the week before we had to say goodbye from the garage into the nursery today, sorting it out, grieving a bit, and organizing it.
    *Said goodbye to our angel baby July 30. 2014. only had him for 21 weeks in my belly, missing him every day*
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  • LyndseyTSLyndseyTS member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. One week is hard.
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    ((hugs)) I'm so sorry.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • msunshine123msunshine123 member
    Big hugs to you - thinking of you.
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  • forevermyfenixforevermyfenix member
    It's been exactly one week for me as well. He was 36 weeks and I would have had my final growth ultrasound today. How does this get easier?
    BFP #1 12/19/13 We lost our Fenix 7/31/14 at 36 weeks due to torn umbilical cord
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  • jml2ndjml2nd member
    sugarstar1784 said:
    Thank you everyone. It's so good knowing that I'm not alone (although it's horrible because of what you've had to go through). 
    I'm taking all the baby stuff we had been given the week before we had to say goodbye from the garage into the nursery today, sorting it out, grieving a bit, and organizing it.

    So sorry for your loss!!! 

     

    I lost my boys, Nathan & Conner [28 weeks], on July 16th. 

     

    I'm just now finding myself getting into their "room" [which was just storage...it wasn't a nursery yet] to sort through and decide what to keep and donate from the piles of things I had bought just days before losing them! 

     

    I'm still hesitating, but I know it has to be done! :(


     

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  • jml2ndjml2nd member
    artgeek009 said:
    It's been exactly one week for me as well. He was 36 weeks and I would have had my final growth ultrasound today. How does this get easier?

    So sorry for your loss as well! 

     

    It's been 3 weeks for me.  I can honestly say some days are so easy it's scary!  But then you'll hit that wall that will knock you down!  It's definitely a roller coaster! 

     

     

    Big hugs to all of you ladies!!!

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  • sugarstar1784sugarstar1784 member
    hugs @jml2nd
    *Said goodbye to our angel baby July 30. 2014. only had him for 21 weeks in my belly, missing him every day*
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