All you moms that are pregnant or had #2 after a C-section with #1, did/does your incision hurt during pregnancy? There is something absolutely horrifying to me about my incision scar stretching and I am already freaking out a little. I hate scars and I get grossed out just touching it. The thought of getting a big pregnant belly again with this scar is just really terrifying to me. I have this irrational fear it will split open or something. Gross, I know.
So tell me, is there any pain associated with your incision while pregnant? Does the incision hurt more after a 2nd c/s?? Thanks! And I know its early to be thinking about all this already, but it freaked me out even before knowing I was pregnant.
Re: Pregnancy after c-section (a little gross, sorry)
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10 BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10 BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
I think a lot of it has to do with your care provider. I see nurse midwives who are very natural birth/vbac friendly. I know in general failure to progress makes many OBs push for a repeat c section. The determination of vbac vs repeat c depends a lot on why you ended up with a csection in the first place. And the thought is if you stalled with your first you are likely to stall with your second. If the csection was emergent, for breach presentation or multiples most care providers will regularly okay a vbac (unless there were complications). But if it was due to cephalopelvic disproportion aka big baby small pelvis they won't. It's kind of a crap shoot really. Even with mine being vbac friendly I still had to schedule a csection since I had one prior just to "be on the schedule" but I was allowed to push it as far out as 42 weeks. I went with 41 because Emily was so big and I'm sure this kid will be too and I figure after 41 weeks my chances of vaginally birth would decrease significantly due to size. But I did consider waiting the full 42 and can still change my mind at any time.
My issue with Kellen was big baby, small pelvis. He was so lodged in my pelvic bone that they couldn't get him out during surgery, hence the uterine tears. I guess that lowers my chance if VBAC even more. I think I'm finally accepting another c/s as a possibility though. Plus I'm betting recovery is a lot easier when you don't labor 14 hours, push for 3, and then have a traumatic surgery on top of that. I sure hope so!!