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I don't know what it is about today, but I'm feeling sad. My husband and I are trying again and I am so scared that I will have another miscarriage. I feel truly blessed to have my DD, it is just scary to think about the possiblity of other miscarriages. Thanks for listening...
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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    Thinking about you!  We all have tough days, but with the support of this board, we get through it!

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    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    Just sending you ((((HUGS)))  Sorry that you are having such a rough day. 
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
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  • uromysuromys member
    Many ((hugs)) DH was talking last night about wanting to try again as soon as possible. As much as I want to I'm scared out of my mind. Hoping you find comfort in knowing you aren't alone. Best wishes!

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    I'm so sorry you're having a rough day. Sending lots of positive thoughts your way and big ((hugs))
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    ((hugs)) We all have those fears.  Sorry you are having a bad day.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • jennadesignsjennadesigns member
    I'm sorry you're having a rough day. I think we all have those fears - trying again is scary. Big ((hugs)) to you.
    BFP 3/30/13, MMC and D&C 4/19/13
    BFP 4/8/14, MMC 5/5/14, D&C 5/9/14
    BFP 8/26/14 Due date 5/8/15

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  • heathersf11heathersf11 member
    I'm sorry you are having a rough day. (((Hugs)))
    DH diagnosed with testicular cancer 6/04/10
    Married DH 8/1/11
    7/21/13 SA poor morphology/ low count
    BFP #1 11/18/13, EDD 7/22/14 
    MC Blighted Ovum 12/4/13 @ 7wks
    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • graceanne927graceanne927 member
    We definitely all have the same fears and I"m sorry you're having a sad day....hope your day turns around for you!  (((hugs))
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  • stinybeanstinybean member
    I'm so sorry you're feeling sad today. I hope that these will help: ((((HUGS))))
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  • shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
    Im sorry your having a rough day (((hugs)))

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    BFP # 2 8/7/14 EDD 4/22/15
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  • purplehaze11purplehaze11 member
    -living child mentioned- Hugs, I also have an DD, then have suffered 2 m/c since. I'm so thankful for her, and so petrified to try again.

    DD 15.07.2012

    BFP #2 01.18.2014, MMC 04.10.2014 15w5d

    BFP #3 07.18.2014, MC 07.31.2014 5w6d

    DX: RPL due to submucosal uterine fibroid. Hysteroscopy 12/16. All clear!

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  • natalie115natalie115 member
    I already feel that way and just lost our baby today. While I knew the risks the first time around I was still so naive. Now I know it'll take a lot longer to be able to feel excited and connected the next time. Hang in there, there will be better days ahead.

    Started TTC Nov. 2011 

    1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d


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  • paintdadantapaintdadanta member
    I'm sorry you had a rough day and like many of the other ladies commented, you are not alone in those fears or without support.

    I'm usually more on the pessimistic side of things but DH is slowly rubbing off on me. It's ok to be scared but don't let your past experiences define who you are. As DH always tells me it is what it is but you have to take a step at a time to get there. And when we do then you can freak out for short while before you take some more steps.
    Life is a balance of holding on and letting go.

    BFP #1 05/19/14, EDD 01/19/15, MMC 06/12/14 

     BFP #2 10/10/14, EDD 06/19/15

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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm sorry you are having a rough day. Those sneak up on me sometimes too. I hope tomorrow is better. (((Hugs)))
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • herbaveinherbavein member
    lots and lots of hugs. 

    TTC#3: started September 2014; BFP on 10/1/14; EDD 6/10/15
    TTC#2: started June 2014; BFP on 7/22/14; EDD 3/31/5; MC 8/3/14
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    CRB (aka L): born 3/21/11 (35 weeks, 5 weeks in the NICU)
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