I am fighting back an all out meltdown.
I cant make my rent this month and I've already not paid my car payment.
I have off for the next two weeks from nannying and the mom said she would pay me for the weeks the kids were gone. Great. I was fully expecting her to give me a check today for this week I worked and the next two. If she had, I'd be able to make my rent no problem. Of course not. She gave me this and next in one check I could deposit and then a post dated check for the last week that I can't cash because it might "bounce." Normally if I mention my plight to my mom, she will offer to help me out...though she has never needed to in the end of it all. I've tried selling e's clothes a million times with no luck. I'm scouring the house trying to find things to sell. I don't buy things for myself. We don't drive much. We don't live beyond our means. I pray so hard I dont end up evicted. We have no where to go. I mean Florida, but my case is still pending here and that would all go to shit...plus moving obviously costs money.
I'm so hurt right now because this wouldn't be happening if ass clown were doing what he's supposed to be doing and paying me CS or arrears. I look around me and see how my life has been taken over by my sweet girl (don't regret that at all) but he gets to live his life like normal and I get to wonder how we're going to make it.
I'd talk to my apt complex but I'm on a special housing program that you have to make a minimum to be on...well I no longer make that minimum and haven't since I left my job last year. If they find out, I risk being forced out anyway. I spent SO MUCH TIME trying to find a place for us...its just not possible to find something else. I'm racking my brain trying to come up with a story to tell them, but I can't find one. I'm just hoping they let me pay a portion...even then I will have a $120 late fee to attempt to come up with. As it stands, I'd be about $20 short but that's completely draining my account with no money for gas and not paying any of my other bills.
My dad flips shits when he loans me money so I don't know if he will help or not, but it's my only way. I have $600 in social benefits at some point coming but who knows when? Next week? The week after? Just sucks really really bad when you have money coming but not fast enough.
Please say a prayer, send juju, whatever for me. This kind of stuff gets me really really down.
Thanks.
PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
Re: I've hit the end of my road :(
If you can ask your mom, why not? Just to bridge the gap.
I know what you mean with the guy being able to just live their normal life. But they are missing out on a real special person and one day they will come to realize they missed out.
I think if i remember correctly you belong to a church, talk to your pastor see if there is any way the church could help you out this month.
Its hard going through this stuff and ill keep you in my prayers but remember even though your ex is unaffected hes the one missing out on a wonderful beautiful child
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