February 2015 Moms

Husband vent! ;)

Does anyone else's husband use "hormones" as an excuse for every single time you get mad at him now? It absolutely pisses me off. Like before I was pregnant what was your excuse? He thinks I can't be mad at him without it being the fault of hormones. Because evidently when I became pregnant, he became an innocent victim. Also, if he touches my boobs one more time he may die.
Please tell me I'm not alone! Haha

Re: Husband vent! ;)

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  • Mine does, too. He applied to a job for me and blamed hormones for why I was upset. He really didn't get that he crossed a boundary and it took me hours to explain that what he did was wrong. Sweet and thoughtful to be so helpful but wrong.
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  • Haha I love seeing that mine isn't the only idiot! He's sweet too, but an idiot. I especially love how the other day he tried to "help" and clean the floors. He first mopped, then ran the vacuum cleaner over where he mopped....... I was almost in tears because he "messed everything up" and I will give him that one may have been hormone induced. They try to be sweet. ;) but seriously, who mops first and then sweeps/vacuums?
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  • I got upset with my husband yesterday and barely started to cry and he just started laughing "because I was obviously not really upset, it's just the hormones". Grrrrrrr pissed me off even more.
  • When my husband says anything about hormones it makes me cry and scream even louder. He then continues to say "see, you're proving my point" and then I lose it all! Haha I understand we are a little hormonal. But every time we have any negative emotions does not have to be hormone related. I keep telling him that just because I'm now hormonal doesn't mean he stopped being an ass at times. ;) he disagrees.
  • Hahahahahaha I love this! Yes I'm going through the same thing. He's always saying to my brothers, pregnant women are crazy watch out. Ugh...that makes me want to punch him lol But I get mad over the same things I always got mad about (taking out the garbage before it's overflowing, hanging up towels instead of leaving them on the floor, putting the seat down) hahaha he still didn't get it!! And I feel your pain with the boob touching...I'm one squeeze away from taking him down :P
  • Ha. Funny enough DH isn't the issue it's my coworkers. For the last year if I have ever lost my steam. "oh she must be pregnant" Oyi. No just because I am typically easy going and go with the flow doesn't mean that when I say no or I get irked at a situation that pregnancy hormones are the reason. I was telling DH this and he laughed saying he has been expecting some emotional swings but hasn't really noticed any.

    Now the whole boobs subject that is another story... He learned the hard way after touching my boobs when they were super sore.
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  • My husband got drunk last night at dinner with myself and his parents. He wanted to drag me to a bar with him after dinner. Then drank more when we got home. I was so mad. It's completely insensitive to drink that much around your pregnant wife and act like an idiot on top of it.
  • Yes my husband also falls into the idiot catergory.
    If Im mad about anything apparently its my hormones. I was a raging bitch before pregnancy I dont need being knocked up as my excuse.

    Also the floorsthing I would have said wtf. apparently my dh is incapable of doing anything for anyone other than hisself.
    Pregnancy #1 DD 08.30.2007
    Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014
    Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015
    Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019
    Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020

  • Love these stories lol my husband says I'm nicer pregnant than not and at this rate he may keep me pregnant (not really). On to the subject of boobs (sorry if it's TMI) before we start fooling around I'm giving him the rules for the ladies just because the sensitivity of them seems to come and go so now beforehand he's like what am I allowed to do haha!
  • My boyfriend is just being pissy & frustrated with our job & taking it out on me& i'm over it.
  • I want to kill my husband almost on a daily basis! Lol. He always manages to say the wrong thing, and then I'm yelling at him cuz he's stupid. I work full time, and we already have two kids. I've had horrible morning sickness and I'm exhausted all the time but I still manage to do a lot of the normal mom/wife duties. Granted my DH has picked up a lot of slack as far as cleaning and cooking goes, but he's always making comments like "if you would give the kids baths this month" or "if you ever folded laundry". ARGH!!!! I want to break his face!!!! Why make comments that you know will puss me off! Especially when they are specifically invalid comments!!!! There are no words..........
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