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Vent: Need Love

ambmamaambmama member
in January 2013 Moms
Between a sister who I used to be bf with that won't respond to my texts (yet is facebookimg away), a bridal party I'm not a part of - nor the wedding, and a friend who didn't call me back, I'm feeling extremely unloved right now. I've never had a ton of friends but felt close to the ones I had, I can't help but feeling down and out right now. Thankful for you ladies for letting me vent.

BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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  • ambmamaambmama member
    Agree! @dckate

    BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

    BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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  • OhBaby+2013OhBaby+2013 member
    I hear ya! I don't have a big group of friends and the ones I do have don't have kids or live far away. It definitely gets lonely sometimes. Although i dont know you ladies IRL, i think of you as friends. You've certainly helped me through enough. If I weren't KTFU I would totally be down for a wine and whine night.
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  • emja0214emja0214 member
    Hugs! Even though we do not know each other you have a big group of friends here who are always here for you!
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  • gagirl2004gagirl2004 member
    I am also going through a lot and starting to fewl some resentment towards Dh . 1) He went on a bachelor's party weekend full of drinking and rafting and camping. 2) He's not even in the wedding. 3) Im at home with DD 24/7/365 and never get a break. 4) He never changes Any diapers. 5) I am stuck at home with no vechicle. I could keep going, I can already tell you its not gonna be good when he gets home. Im afraid I need a couple stiff vodka and cranberries or hes gonna get cussed out..
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  • martha919martha919 member
    I'm with y'all. I'm forever reaching out to people. It's exhausting. Now one of my new friends is this girl from church and I'm basically being friends with her because they live a mile away from us and we're the same age/have small children together. DH doesn't really like her H, either...they're fine people but the chemistry is just not there, y'know? But I'm in no position to forsake potential friends right now, haha.
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  • spainy17spainy17 member
    Ugh I'm sorry mama. We are here for you!
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  • ambmamaambmama member
    Thanks ladies. I really appreciate the support and I'm sorry so many of you can relate. Ugh, getting older is terrible sometimes!

    BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

    BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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  • ReeceFamilyReeceFamily member
    I'm like you in that I prefer to have fewer but closer friends.  I think the process of losing/gaining friends is totally normal and unavoidable, but it's more painful when you really invest in people in your life.  Sorry it's hitting you at such a hard time.  And WTF with your sister?
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