Intro (BFP/Loss mentioned)

cm312rn · August 2014

Hi everyone! I'd like to introduce myself and join the board.

I'm 30 (almost 31). DH and I have been married for 3 years and TTC for 2 years. After trying for 7 months we got our first BFP, we were so excited! We went to my dr and after a few draws found out that my labs just weren't doubling and eventually started falling. We were heart broken but bound not to let this ruin our hopes, so we continued TTC. 9 months later we had our 2nd BFP.... again, we got excited and called the doctor.... this time we had the opposite problem.... my hCG was sky high.... we ended up with a molar and had to have a D&C in Decemeber.

Forward to the present time, we got our 3rd BFP on Monday (4w1d), had hCG drawn this past Tuesday (4w2d) and my levels were only 19... I know it's in the "normal" range... but it is extremely low and I am pretty upset. I will go back this coming Tuesday and have them drawn again and see how high it is.

In the past, after the first loss we were devastated but knew that sometimes it happens. After the molar pregnancy I was crushed. I wanted to consult a reproductive specialist but my gyn convinced me that he really doesn't think that I should see one unless I have a 3rd mishap. Looking back, I feel like I should have sought a second opinion from a reproductive specialist. I've asked in the past to have my blood work drawn to see if I have any underlying medical issues that might be affecting my pregnancies (clotting disorder, thyroid dysfunction, etc). But my gyn told me that I was "jumping the gun"

Again, I'm trying so hard not to get my hopes up about things this time around, but I know for a fact that if we have another loss, I WILL find a reproductive specialist.

Sorry for the long intro! Looking forward to getting to know you ladies.

KJsbabe · August 2014

Welcome and congrats! I'm sorry you doctor discouraged you from looking further into things. Even being pregnant now, if your doctor isn't giving you the care you feel you deserve, or isn't taking your concerns seriously, it may be time to find a new doctor. It never hurts to get a second opinion. I switched doctors after my second loss and it was one of the best decisions I've made.

Wishing you a H&H 9 months!

carlsonbaby2014 · August 2014

I'm sorry for your previous losses. I hope you have a healthy pregnancy and don't even need to see a RE. Welcome to the board!

MrsHamon09 · August 2014

Congratulations and welcome!

footprint · August 2014

Congrats and welcome! I am very sorry for your previous losses. I agree with PPs about finding a new OB. Wishing up a H&H 9 months!

Denise91980 · August 2014

Congratulations! Hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months ahead.

haleyusf · August 2014

Sending T&P that your 2nd betas show beautiful doubling. Welcome and congratulations! Remember, today, you are pregnant

cm312rn · August 2014

Thank you everyone for all the positive T&P!

sgio7485 · August 2014

Congratulations and welcome.

Bigboneded · August 2014

Congrats and welcome! :-) I am with the PPsabout having a doctor you are comfortable with. You should not be told no for routine tests, checking thyroid is not "jumping the gun" . I no longer trust anyone who tells me they "can manage" my medical condition after the first 4 f'd up so bad! But thats me, I would fire a doctor that doesnt take my concerns seriously. No point in paying someone money to "pooh pooh" and dismiss my legitimate concerns and questions!!!

Ummm, I started with "Welcome" didn't I? Congrats on getting here! H&H 9 months to you :-)