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back and i want to run....

Mills0401Mills0401 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
Its my first day back at work since my D&C and I want to run! I'm hoping that nobody says anything that's bound to make me emotional. Lord give me strength.
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Re: back and i want to run....

  • KingLEDKingLED member
    Good luck today!
    Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
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  • farniegalfarniegal member
    Good luck today! Just act really busy and close your door if you have one :) You can do this, you are already so strong.
    Me - 35 DH - 41
    TTC 06.03.2013 
    BFP 06.15.2014  EDD 02.25.2015  MMC 07.07.2014 Miso 07.18.2014 
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  • Sunshine1116Sunshine1116 member
    Good luck today!

    BFP #1 3/7/2010 - DD born 11/16/2010
    BFP #2 12/20/2012 -  CP 12/22/2012
    BFP #3 1/10/2013 - Blighted Ovum 2/7/2013
    BFP #4 8/22/2013 - D&C 10/22/2013

    RPL testing discovered blood clotting issue

    BFP #5 3/9/2014 - Discovered baby no longer had a heartbeat at 20 week U/S, Induced Delivery & D&C 6/27/2014

    Awaiting Genetic results to determine steps forward

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  • sosuemesosueme member
    I feel the same way. Like, I just needed one more day under the covers at home.
    Me: 30 H: 30 
    Married since May 2008
    TTC Since February 2014
    1st BFP: June 17, 2014; EDD Feb 25, 2015; ^^MMC July 2014^^
    2nd BFP: November 10, 2014; EDD July 26, 2015. Please be our RAINBOW!
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  • mak7788mak7788 member

    How did your day go? Well, it's about 5pm here, not sure what time zone you're in!

    Today was my first day back too (took Friday off), so I know how you feel.

    Married 7/21/12

    Off bcp and ttc 9/1/13

    bfp 7/20/14, m/c 7/23

    will ttc again 8/14

     

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  • Mills0401Mills0401 member
    Today went surprisingly well. I do have to say I'm glad to be off and heading home. I ready for privacy to be able to cry. It dawned on me today that it had been exactly a week since my Dr informed me that there was no growth and no longer a heart beat. It doesn't feel like it was a week ago. It feels more like it was yesterday.
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  • mak7788mak7788 member
    aw that is tough. I'm glad you made it through the day. I hope tomorrow is better than today.

    Married 7/21/12

    Off bcp and ttc 9/1/13

    bfp 7/20/14, m/c 7/23

    will ttc again 8/14

     

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  • negritosmaminegritosmami member
    I was just wondering how long everyone else took off of work. I found out on Wednesday that I lost the baby. D&c yesterday and I'm wondering when emotionally ill be ok to go to work? Does anyone else find that they cry at any given moment..one second ur fine and the next ur crying? I'm glad to hear u did well at work...makes me think maybe I can handle it too

    ~TTC #1 Since 3/2014
    ~BFP #1 6/2014      EDD 2/11/15
    ~MMC 7/31/14 @12weeks ~D&C /2/2014  

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  • Mills0401Mills0401 member
    I found out last Monday (21st) and went to work afterwards (think its because I didn't know where else to go and it kept me sidetracked) had d&c last Thursday (24th) and went back to work Monday (28th). I was okay but the entire week sucked until Thursday. Today is actually the first day that I haven't cried which I'm really excited about!!! Honestly though I think it depends on the person. I still don't want to be around people I kinda just want to be at home with my DH which a friend o mine (who has had a mc) said that it took her a few weeks to get back to her new normal.
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  • farniegalfarniegal member
    I took the pills instead of a D&C and did not take any time off work. I had some trouble concentrating at times, but being busy at work was better for me mentally than sitting around the house were I had nothing to take my mind off the loss. I have an office with a door, so if I needed to cry or call the doctor I could shut my door, so that really helped. I also can hide out in my office most days and avoid people if needed.

    Just do what is best for you, only you can decide. Take care of yourself and give yourself time to heal, whether that's by staying busy or staying a bed a few extra days. GL! T&P
    Me - 35 DH - 41
    TTC 06.03.2013 
    BFP 06.15.2014  EDD 02.25.2015  MMC 07.07.2014 Miso 07.18.2014 
                                                                 August TTCAL Siggy Challenge : WTF Tattoos
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