3rd Trimester

Birthing Center or Hospital

TheaRaeTheaRae member
edited July 2014 in 3rd Trimester

As I am nearing my due date I am finding myself having cold feet about a hospital delivery. I am hoping to have a natural birth with no medications, I am currently seeing a midwife for care at a local hospital and she is wonderful and has assured me I can have the delivery that I want here at the hospital, however the midwife who delivered my first child just opened a birthing center in my area as well. I am hoping to have a water birth, and would like to be less bothered by nurses and what not. The pros to the birth center are more natural experience, water birth and other unique options avaible for labor, delivery, and post baby... Pros to hospital, if I need an epurdural for any reason it is avaible, longer stay for baby & I, help with breast feeding, food provided, and help for self or baby if situations arise.

The birthing center allows us to leave same day with midwife providing in home visit @ 24, & 72 hours... followed by traditional post baby visits. Have you experienced both settings when having a child or do you have a prefrence... both of these options are covered by my insurance... and with 10 weeks left I really need to get this figured out.

Re: Birthing Center or Hospital

  • I have given birth in a hospital twice because that is my only option here. If there was a birthing center around here that would absolutely be my first choice.
  • I did a birthing center. But this place was right across from the hospital and they had epidurals if you wanted one. If this place is not far from a hospital, I'd go if I were you. The midwife home visits are definitely a nice plus! But in the end, only you know what will make you happy/comfortable. Good luck!
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  • I've had two hospital births and would only choose a hospital again.  If something went wrong I'd want to be there just in case.  Also, having nurses take care of you for a day or two is kind of worth it.  

    Is the birthing center close to your hospital?  If so then that might be a good option.  
  • Kimbus22 said:
    I'm very pro-hospital.  Even with my low risk pregnancies and low risk delivery where there was zero indication of any issues until the last 30 seconds of pushing, my daughter almost died and had to be immediately taken from me and transferred to another hospital with a NICU.  After that experience I would never consider birth anywhere but a hospital with a good NICU.  I realize that it's a one in a million chance you'll need it but when you're that one person who does and its' not there, it's horrible and I would never risk it again.

    This is in no way a dig at my midwife either.  She was amazing and saved my kid's life.

    This is my story exactly.  Delivered with an amazing midwife at a hospital, and everything went to shit in the final hour.  I am so glad there were respiratory specialists and a pediatrician right there on site to save DS' life (and ultimately transfer him to a more sophisticated NICU).  If something had gone wrong at the birthing centre, I don't think I ever could have forgiven myself.

    That being said, I have many friends who have had very successful birthing centre and home birth deliveries.  I'm happy for them and I'm sure they made the best choice for their families.  But me? Hospital please.  I'd deliver this baby IN THE NICU if they'd let me.

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  • deux said:
    Well, you wouldn't be without emergency care even if you were in a birth center. That's what midwives are there for. They have emergency equipment with them - oxygen, IV equipment, pitocin for hemorrhages. I used to work reception at a birth center, and they had two emergency transfers while I worked there, and both went from first sign of emergency to baby in arms (after transfer to hospital and c-section) in 20 minutes. OR gets prepped on the way, straight to surgery. So if something goes wrong it isn't an automatic poor outcome.
    @deux, Was your birth center free standing or an accredited birth center affiliated with the hospital?
  • deuxdeux member
    edited July 2014
    Free standing ETA about a mile from the hospital
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    Kimbus22 said:


    deux said:

    Well, you wouldn't be without emergency care even if you were in a birth center. That's what midwives are there for. They have emergency equipment with them - oxygen, IV equipment, pitocin for hemorrhages. I used to work reception at a birth center, and they had two emergency transfers while I worked there, and both went from first sign of emergency to baby in arms (after transfer to hospital and c-section) in 20 minutes. OR gets prepped on the way, straight to surgery. So if something goes wrong it isn't an automatic poor outcome.

    I hope I didn't sound like I thought it was.  I was just heartbroken having my 1 hr old baby across town from me getting treated while I was hysterical somewhere else.


    No no, it wasn't at anyone in particular. Just a lot of times when out-of-hospital birth is discussed there are lots of "my baby would've died if born out of a hospital" stories, and who knows, maybe they're right - no one can know that - but I feel like the implication that can come across is that midwives don't/can't handle emergencies. Sometimes the way women tell their story it's like they think if they'd been at a birth center the midwife would've just been like, "oh darn, there's a problem, I guess I lost another one." I'm being facetious, of course, but you get the idea. It can be really scary for a mom considering a home/birth center birth to hear hose stories without understanding how emergencies are handled by midwives out of (or en route to) a hospital.

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    edited August 2014

    deux said:
    No no, it wasn't at anyone in particular. Just a lot of times when out-of-hospital birth is discussed there are lots of "my baby would've died if born out of a hospital" stories, and who knows, maybe they're right - no one can know that - but I feel like the implication that can come across is that midwives don't/can't handle emergencies. Sometimes the way women tell their story it's like they think if they'd been at a birth center the midwife would've just been like, "oh darn, there's a problem, I guess I lost another one." I'm being facetious, of course, but you get the idea. It can be really scary for a mom considering a home/birth center birth to hear hose stories without understanding how emergencies are handled by midwives out of (or en route to) a hospital.
    To be fair, however, there are a lot of stories where a midwife at a freestanding birth center or home birth was absolutely ill-equipped to handle the delivery or any emergencies that arose, and these stories have terrible outcomes. Not all midwives and birth centers are created equally, and depending on state regulation of midwifery, that midwife may have no medical training or education and not much more than a high school diploma. I live in Oregon, and there are some absolutely shocking stories surrounding homebirths or birth center births gone wrong. The situation is so bad that the state now requires information on intended place of birth on all birth certificates, and in 2012 documented a perinatal mortality rate for out of hospital births that is 3-4 times higher than comparable low-risk hospital births.

    FWIW, OP, the only birth center I would even consider would be an accredited birth center staffed by certified nurse midwives, integrated into the hospital system for fast transfers (otherwise it's not likely you'll get transferred and sectioned within 20 minutes), and carrying adequate malpractice/liability insurance. Even so, consider this: if it's a dire emergency like abruption, cord prolapse, or shoulder dystocia, do you think 20 minutes from 9-1-1 to delivery is quick enough? Could you hold your breath for 20 minutes? Could your baby?
  • TheaRaeTheaRae member
    edited August 2014
    This birthing center is 7 minutes from the hospital and 2 minutes from EMT services. I am already established with a midwife @ the hospital here and she is wonderful, I am just concerned mostly about the nurses and hospital regulations since I am very interested in having a natural water birth. My first child was born with the CNM who just opened a birthing center here in my area (she was previously working for the hospital, and refferd me to the midwife @ the hospital who I am seeing now) My first child was delivered in 3 hours & four pushes, I had no complications but did recieve an pain medications. I feel confident that I can do this there just is that back of my mind concern such as the stories that PP's have mentioned.
  • Kimbus22 said:
    I'm very pro-hospital.  Even with my low risk pregnancies and low risk delivery where there was zero indication of any issues until the last 30 seconds of pushing, my daughter almost died and had to be immediately taken from me and transferred to another hospital with a NICU.  After that experience I would never consider birth anywhere but a hospital with a good NICU.  I realize that it's a one in a million chance you'll need it but when you're that one person who does and its' not there, it's horrible and I would never risk it again.

    This is in no way a dig at my midwife either.  She was amazing and saved my kid's life.
    The miniscule risk of something unexpectedly going wrong is the reason I wouldn't consider delivering anywhere but Women & Infants hospital.  If something happens, they're going to send the baby there to the NICU anyway.  I'd rather it be a short elevator ride than any amount of time in an ambulance.
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  • I delivered at a free standing birth Centre. I love my midwife and she did an amazing job at making my birth what I wanted to be.

    The hospital is about 10 minutes by ambulance from the Centre. My midwife wanted to call 911 in the last 10 minutes because ds wasn't coming down and his heart rate was slowing. She also wanted to give me an epistomy (sp) but I kept saying no and she knew I didn't want one. But things were getting bad quick and there was a short window to get him out.

    Luckily I got ds out in minutes after that and he's healthy. But. It could have gone differently. Very differently.

    However. Should I have another child I will go back to the birth Centre unless there is a reason otherwise.

    In the end it doesn't matter where when how or why. What matters is a healthy baby.
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