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littlestjerry
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Final update
littlestjerry
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Sorry to a PW, but I didn't want to bring down the drinking thread either.
So, I've been bleeding heavily and cramping since late afternoon. Very heavy bleeding. Talked to the doc and she said it, of course, sounded like I was miscarrying. We decided that she'll check my bloodwork Monday and if the numbers were high, I can come in for more blood more to confirm they're dropping, but if they were low, I wouldn't even need to do more blooodwork. I had my first appt scheduled Friday. I need an annual exam, so I'll just keep that appt and discuss the miscarriage with my regular doc (who was out today).
This is way harder than I would have thought it could be. I've basically laid in bed all day and cried. I'm also feeling a lot of guilt. Guilt that DH has done the bulk of the childcare today even though he lost a baby too. Guilt that I already told my parents, who now have to be sad. Guilt that I already told my close group of friends, three of whom are pregnant and don't need to worry about someone else's miscarriage. DH was supposed to go to a golf scramble all day tomorrow and now he's not. MIL was surprised to find out that he wasn't still going so I guess she doesn't feel that sad for me at least!
Anyway, again, it is invaluable to have had a place to turn to when this started this morning. Knowing that you all were here to try to make me feel better and offer up your stories and advice and positive thoughts was amazing. And so unbelievably helpful. Thank you so much.
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