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1st cycle.. can't test

ArcticFoxArcticFox member
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I had a D&C on Nov 4, had AF start around Dec 4-5-6 (spotted 4th, 5th, full out AF on the 6th).

We tried only once when I thought I was ovulating (guests here, not much time or privacy!).

Aside from having myself convinced there is no way I can be preg and that I'll just wait for AF..

I just can't do it.  It's only been the first try after the m/c but I don't think I can deal with a BFN.  I wouldn't say I'm emotionally "fragile" after the m/c, but I am having huge issues with all the lost time.  Last time I had AF was in July, had my BFP on Labor Day, and m/c in Nov.  6 months gone.. I can't deal with more...  (sorry so depressing!)

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Re: 1st cycle.. can't test

  • kimmie321kimmie321
    ((hugs)) I too felt this way about the lost time. It is very frustrating.
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  • melisb25melisb25
    I'm sorry for your loss and I know exactly how you feel. Our cycle is pretty similar, I had my D&C on November 5th, then got AF Dec. 9th. I'm probably going to be testing on Sunday if AF hasn't shown up. I keep telling myself I will be fine if it doesn't happen this month, but I know that I will be extremely disappointed.
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  • adkhikeradkhiker member

    I am sorry that you are feeling down.  I have very similar feelings about losing time from my m/c.  It is terribly frustrating and sad  to think about the months lost.  I can only hope my AF shows soon so we can get back to TTC.  GL.

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  • DWBrideMar2008DWBrideMar2008
    Hey Arctic, I know we've talked before about have our D&C's around the same time so I'm right there with you. ?I keep reminding myself that if it will happen it will happen. Hang in there!
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