I've only been back at work for 2 days now, and things are going relatively smoothly so far, but I still feel like even with doing everything we need to do the night before, and pre-preparing dinners in advance, it still takes us awhile to get out the door in the morning, and it seems like there is a whole bunch of crap to do when we get home too. Some of that may just be from having an infant again (I forgot about the extra time it takes to make bottles, pack them in the cooler in the morning, etc.), but I feel like maybe there may be ways to cut corners/save time that I am missing. So ladies, what are your tricks of the trade?
BFP #1 6/28/11 ~ EDD 3/7/12 ~ m/c 7/15/11 at 6w2d
BFP #2 8/29/11 ~ EDD 5/12/12. 4/25/12: Our take home baby is here!
BFP #3 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/11/14. 4/27/14: Our second take home baby is here!
Re: Share your favorite time savers
I love all these so far, especially the wine!
Right now, I put a "to do" list on our dry erase board in the kitchen of everything we need to do before bed, and then so far DH is doing it all while I'm taking care of DD's bedtime routine, which is usually about an hour and ten or so (hard to get her down after she eats), but last night was only about 40 minutes. That includes getting bottles ready, washing bottles (we have a ton so we don't have to clean every day if we don't want), getting DS's morning milk sippy ready, his car snack for daycare, etc. etc. But we have done ZERO straightening up/cleaning and ZERO chore-type of work (laundry, for example) so I am figuring out when the hell that all gets done. Luckily I spent the last couple days of maternity leave scouring the house because I knew this would happen, so it's in pretty good shape now but I'm like when the hell would we have time to, I don't know, do a load of laundry? Wipe down the stove? Etc.
BFP #1 6/28/11 ~ EDD 3/7/12 ~ m/c 7/15/11 at 6w2d
BFP #2 8/29/11 ~ EDD 5/12/12. 4/25/12: Our take home baby is here!
BFP #3 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/11/14. 4/27/14: Our second take home baby is here!
I also do small errands like the post office, dry cleaner, and filling the gas tank during my lunch break.
I buy select household items in bulk so I don't have to think about them often- for example, a package of kitchen trash bags I bought at Sam's lasted 2 years! I stock up on some seasonal items ahead of time, like cold & flu meds and salt for the driveway in winter, so no one has to run out at 9 PM one night when they are desperately needed.
BFP #1 6/28/11 ~ EDD 3/7/12 ~ m/c 7/15/11 at 6w2d
BFP #2 8/29/11 ~ EDD 5/12/12. 4/25/12: Our take home baby is here!
BFP #3 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/11/14. 4/27/14: Our second take home baby is here!
Outsource (we have a housecleaner come every two weeks and someone cuts the grass/weeds every week).
Multitask - I have no time to read anymore (my favourite pastime), so I listen to audio books while I run (my second favourite pastime).
I respond to emails on my phone while dd plays in the tub (I sit beside her).
I catch up with mom/sister on the phone while doing dishes or prepping supper.
Meal-plan: every week, one night is pizza, one night is breakfast for supper and one night is roast chicken from grocery store. The other nights are usually frozen fish fillets or chicken with rice / steamed veggies and soup with sandwiches. Having a "formula" for the week helps me keep it simple as I am not great at planning extravagant meals/don't have lots of time.
I run small errands at lunch or on the way to daycare after work.
Shower at night and let my hair air dry. I have a hairstyle that suits my hair type and requires almost no work most days.
I hardly fold anything. Kids clothes can be wrinkly - they get dirty right away at daycare anyhow. Underwear, pjs, undershirts just get thrown in a drawer. Ditto for kids towels. I use the steam cycle on the dryer rather than ironing.
I internet shop for clothes/shoes etc. Go to grocery store once a week. I try to "eat-out my freezer/pantry" if I run out of food before then (i.e. frozen/canned fruits veggies that otherwise get forgotten when out of fresh stuff). Bonus - way cheaper/less wasteful.
Love all the tips; you've given me some great ideas. Send breakfast with my child to DC and usually it's something very easy. My current favorite is mini muffins (I make a batch once a week) with a piece of fruit or yogurt (frozen yogurt squeeze packs that unthaw on the way, since I pack the bag and car before my child gets up). I also pack his bag with several days worth of stuff (changes of clothes, snacks, etc.); this way I only have to add breakfast and replenish mid-week. Making double recipes of family favorites and freezing the extras in single serving containers (they thaw quicker).