Tinder warning (TRIGGER)

Re: Tinder warning (TRIGGER)

• FrickandFrack member

  July 2014

  That's terrible.

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• RondackHiker member

  July 2014

  I'm team "this is strange", too.
  
  I mean, assholes are assholes no matter how you meet them.

  
  

  
  

   

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• RondackHiker member

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  MotherOfPearl85 said:

  
  

  pobrecita said:
  

  I use CL. I don't see anyone posting warnings of that
  

  Sure maybe if I had have come across that article it would be here instead.

  So is this a "there are rapists out there" type warning?
  
  Because I think most people know that.

  
  

  
  

   

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• ShakeyJakey member

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  I don't think MOP had bad intentions. Someone tried to roufie (sp?) me and a bunch of girlfriends on my 21st. another girl saw him shaking a powder into our fishbowls (giant glasses) and told us and we go him kicked out. it can happen anywhere/anyway you meet someone. I hadn't even seen that guy nor talked to him and we were in a group of men and women and oldies (my mom came to my 21st, yep) and he still had the balls to try. 

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• ShakeyJakey member

  July 2014

  I hate when I see both sides of something because I love tit both and look flakey.

  Harry Styles = Life Ruiner

  
  

  There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
  Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
  Without you I'll never make it out alive
  But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
  

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  J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing 

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• pearlofwisdom1 member

  July 2014

  rvasc said:

  So, I did read the article, and the judge points out that certain apps are more susceptible to being used by abusers because there are fewer steps. I'm not sure what he's comparing them to--maybe eharmony? Anyway, I fully trust that the women here who use tinder are being appropriately cautious.

  We also have to recognize the many women who lurk here as well that this information may be helpful for as well. I think we, as people, forget to look outside of ourselves at times. 

  

  
  

  
  

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• pearlofwisdom1 member

  July 2014 edited July 2014

  Annnnnd, I'm signed into the wrong account.

  

  
  

  
  

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• pepperedmoth member

  July 2014

  TyrannosaurusLex said:

  I definitely think this post came from a place of concern based on affection and goodwill. I think it wasn't critically evaluated by op before she posted, and thus came off alarmist and a bit eye roll worthy.
  
  I really do get the feeling her heart was in the right place. That doesn't mean it wasn't hurtful or insulting.
  
  <---- Tl;dr sees both sides</p>

  So much this. It is possible to be a kindhearted and caring person AND to say hurtful things. They're not mutually exclusive! No need to pick sides here!
  
  Plus internalized sexism is a thing, yo.
  
  

  

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