Parenting/Exhusband rant/remorse?

Bnnt5 · July 2014

So after my two little girls came home from a visit with their dad, they informed me that 'Daddy says your baby is going to be black.' So...after stewing for the past few days about this, I finally wrote him a letter about teaching our children racism and bigotry (not even mentioning that he has no clue about the race of BD). I was on such a high about it that I cc'd my lawyer...and his pastor. And sent it via certified mail so it would look more intimidating that it was. Was I wrong to do this? There have been so many instances of his trashing me to our girls that I'd just had enough....

20thirteen · July 2014

He needs to learn to not cross the line. My gut says you did the right thing.

freeatlast2014 · July 2014

Wow. That's nuts. I doubt what you did will matter to him but I'm sure it made you feel better. What a douche

tig594 · July 2014

Yeah, he sucks. He probably won't care about the letter but hopefully it made you feel a little better. Without even asking her to, the judge that awarded me sole custody of DD put a clause in that says BD and I cannot do that kind of stuff. We cannot poison or make each other look bad to DD. BD can make himself look bad to her just fine on his own.