After 3 years of the same cycle repeating with DH, I have decided I can't live like this anymore. He drinks too much, too often. It totally turns me off, which leads to no intimacy. Which then leads him to chat sites. This time It has gone to on going talking and texting directly. Before It was a one or two conversation thing. This has been going on now for a month and daily messeges with several of them. We did go to counseling 2 yrs ago with very little progress. It started after DD was born. Now I have 8 mo old twins. I have very little help from family with the kids. I quit a great job to stay home after the twins were born. What do I do first? We own our home. I bought it years before I knew him. But we paid it off together a few yrs ago. How am I going to raise these babies on my own. I feel like I'm drowning as it was.
Re: now what???
Also, I would start stashing away cash now. Hide it.
Have you discussed separating with him? What does he say?
You deserve to be happy and your children deserve to grow up in a healthy happy home.
Throwing leaves