lurking on your former BMB

tigerlynx31413 · July 2014

Is anyone else having a hard time disconnecting from your former BMB? I got attached to a couple girls in my BMB because we were on TTCAL together and then in the same BMB. I keep finding myself lurking to see how they are doing. Sometimes I am fine, but other times it makes me sad. I'm not sure how to stop. Am I alone in this craziness?

tigerlynx31413 · July 2014

Thank you @marybeth080710! Especially since we were TTCALers I like to know that they are still going strong even if I'm not!

KingLED · July 2014

I still lurk and randomly post on the June14 board. I got really close to a lot of those ladies and just couldn't quit them. That being said, it still breaks my heart seeing random updates and pictures of babies. All the what ifs and what could have beens that run through my head are just too much sometimes.

I rarely go to Oct14, but I did for the first time in months yesterday and foolishly started clicking around. I saw where I had posted about my husband being so excited about the twins and posted this picture:

We were playing a game of LoL he's Trash and I'm Muffin. He got all excited and kept saying guess what guess what, it's twins!

It was really cute/awesome when he did it, but finding the image yesterday just made me sad.

I'll probably not look on that board again for a long time, if ever. But June14 I still check in on. The crown in my avatar (and lots of other peoples) is from a joke on that board.

KingLED · July 2014

Sorry for the novel. I guess I could have just said yes. lol

tigerlynx31413 · July 2014

I'm glad I'm not the only one. I'm sure one day it'll get too hard, but right now I'm just hoping they make it beyond the 1st tri!

kerbear135 · July 2014

I don't...it's too difficult for me to do that....I even took a break from DD's BMB for awhile because there are some ladies on there that are pregnant and I couldn't handle seeing that..I'm back on DD's BMB but that board and this one are the only ones I visit right now.

tlc35 · July 2014

I still go to my BMB sometimes. I don't know why I do it. It seems like I'm torturing myself.

Mom2DrG · July 2014

I do. I still feel connected even though I wasn't a super active poster. Its only been 1.5 weeks. I might not once the reality really sets in.

farniegal · July 2014

I haven't in a while. I quit visiting after seeing too many threads saying goodbye...it made me to sad. I was only a lurker on feb14, never posted.

stephy1221 · July 2014

It took me some tome to let go of the Oct 14 BMB. There are some really cool ladies there who have some interesting stories and I really do want to know that it works out for them.

At some point though I had to stop, it is just another way for me to hang on to something that is gone. I do not belong there anymore.

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