Pregnant after a Loss

Pregnant after 2 devastating miscarriages

Hi ladies!
I'm new, I can't believe I'm posting! I'm very scared of my new venture, but cautiously excited...
I'm a mamma of 3 gorgeous kiddos, 9,7,5, and I lost our boy due to his cord being wrapped tight around his neck at 20 weeks 11/2012, and had to deliver him, right after I stopped bleeding, I got pregnant with our girl in January, and miscarried her at the end of May, 2013, and complications led me to have an emergency D&C after in June...I proceeded to spend the summer in bed with severe anemia & now here I sit staring down these maternity clothes!
I'm so depressed when I think of everything that could go wrong, I hate looking at this bin of clothes even though I'm already wearing them, I just don't think it's important to unpack then right now...I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop, I'm not telling my kids until late into my second trimester, I hate this....I love my babies so much, but I'm so afraid of the unknowns! Ugh
Anyway! Excited to get to know you all!

Re: Pregnant after 2 devastating miscarriages

  • CaraHCaraH member
    Congratulations and a reassuring hug. Its so hard when you know what *could* happen. Try to remind yourself that doesn't mean it *will* happen. I find the PGAL mantras at the top of our page very helpful.
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  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your son and daughter (((((((hugs)))))).  Congratulations on this new pregnancy.  I hope it's a boring and healthy 9 months.
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
  • ((hugs)) I'm so sorry for your losses, but welcome and congratulations on your new pregnancy. I hope you're here for a long and joyful 9 months!

    DS born 10/22/2008
    DD born 12/23/2014

    m/c @10wks 12/2007
    m/c @4wks 3/2014


  • I'm so sorry for your previous losses but welcome and congrats on this baby! Hoping for a happy and healthy 9 months for you!

    Me (30) DH (31) Married 5/13, TTC since 2/13
    BFP #1 Blighted Ovum resulting in D&C on 11/1/13
    BFP #2 Ectopic Pg, lap surgery on 3/12/14, R tube removed

    BFP # 3, EDD 2/21/15 * please be our rainbow*
  • I'm so sorry for your losses. ((Hugs))

    Congrats on the new pregnancy and welcome to the board!
  • I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome and Congrats on this pregnancy!
    Me- 27 w/PCOS     DH - 28
    TTC since December 2012 
    BFP 6/29/2013 - EDD 3/16/14 - MMC 9/5/2013
    Diagnosed with PCOS and taking metformin 750 mg  twice a day
    April 2014 -  - 1st ICI Cycle - BFP 5/15/14 EDD: 1/20/15
    A/S 8-22-14 - Its a BOY!!
    12/15 Checkup & heard his beautiful heartbeat
    ALL WELCOME -
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  • I am so sorry for your loss!  I know it's scary.  My thoughts and prayers are with you for a very safe and healthy 9 months!  Congratulations and welcome aboard
    MrS. tHeRiOt
  • I am very sorry for the loss of both your son and daughter. Congrats on this pregnancy. It us so difficult, but try to remember that each pregnancy and each baby is different. ((HUGS))

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie - (B9PH)

     

    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Congratulations on your pregnancy!
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your son and daughter. Congrats on this pregnancy; you will find great support here!
    ~All are welcome~
    MC 23/01/2013 natural @ 7 Weeks

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • AshgalAshgal member
    Sorry for your losses. Sending sticky dust and prayers for a happy and healthy 9 months. 
    Baby #1: EDD:  5/31/08   DD born sleeping due to severe preeclampsia at 22 weeks 1/26/08
    Baby #2: EDD:  4/28/09   DS#1
    Baby #3: EDD:  5/26/11   DS#2
    Baby #4  EDD:  4/1/2015 
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