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Danni_Girl
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I'm 35, DW is 33
Ugh... What a sad day.. :o(
Danni_Girl
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This morning we found out that Jo's grandma, who has cirrhosis of the liver went into the hospital. This afternoon she was placed into palliative care. We started making travel arrangements so Jo could go back home to be with the family. Then we found out her grandma was placed in a medicated coma. Right then, we knew she would not make it through the night. My dad was placed in a medicated coma and he died about 6 hours after. So we just knew it.
Needless to say, we just found out about a half hour ago that she passed away.
What a roller coaster of a day, and I feel terrible for Jo's mom because her parents were headed out east. They are moving there to be closer to Jo's brother and the grand kids. They were in Quebec when they got the news this morning and were making there way back and didn't make it. She never got to see her mom again or say goodbye. So sad.
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Jo is still headed home tomorrow.
Tomorrow morning we are going to cheat and see if we get a positive on a HPT. I go for blood work Friday, so we are within the 4 days for the ClearBlue tests, so we will see what happens.
Our families need some good news. So if Jo can go home with news that we could be pregnant, pending Fridays blood work, I know that would make her mom a little happier.
I just hope we see something good and I don't send her off feeling worse...
So conflicted right now.
But she really wants to be here for the PT.
Needless to say, we just found out about a half hour ago that she passed away.
What a roller coaster of a day, and I feel terrible for Jo's mom because her parents were headed out east. They are moving there to be closer to Jo's brother and the grand kids. They were in Quebec when they got the news this morning and were making there way back and didn't make it. She never got to see her mom again or say goodbye. So sad.
(Jo is still headed home tomorrow.
Tomorrow morning we are going to cheat and see if we get a positive on a HPT. I go for blood work Friday, so we are within the 4 days for the ClearBlue tests, so we will see what happens.
Our families need some good news. So if Jo can go home with news that we could be pregnant, pending Fridays blood work, I know that would make her mom a little happier.
I just hope we see something good and I don't send her off feeling worse...
So conflicted right now.
But she really wants to be here for the PT.
I'm 35, DW is 33
Together since Dec 2007
Married since 18 June 2011
TTC #1
1st IUI - trigger, 9 July 14 at midnight, IUI - 11 July 14 at noon - BFP!!
10 Dec 14 - Lost our Baby Girl to Hydrops & Cycstic Hygroma due to Turner Syndrome
TTC #2
2nd IUI - hoping to try for our Rainbow in the Spring
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Re: Ugh... What a sad day.. :o(
Me: 30 DW (aka C): 29
Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12
***CP mentioned***
We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm. 8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy. We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET. I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013.
11/14/14 - Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good.
12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2
12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)
1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2
****All Welcome!****
We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.
Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012
5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN
Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer! *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581 *********William George born June 4, 2014*********Thank you for your kind words. It's been a rough year. Jo's grandpa died last year in July, now her grandma a year later. I lost two cousin last year, my Dad in Jan, his sister last month... What a year....
DW is leaving for Ontario in 30 min.. Well more like the 3.5 hour bus ride to the airport and then to Ontario.
We did the HPT this morning. There is a faint positive. Which is awesome. But now I'm wondering if it's just a faint positive because I still have hcg in my system from the trigger. It has been 12 days since the trigger.
I'll keep testing, and I go for my blood work Friday morning. So we will see what happens.
Just sucks that I could be dealing with BFN on my own...
I'm 35, DW is 33
Together since Dec 2007
Married since 18 June 2011
TTC #1
1st IUI - trigger, 9 July 14 at midnight, IUI - 11 July 14 at noon - BFP!!
10 Dec 14 - Lost our Baby Girl to Hydrops & Cycstic Hygroma due to Turner Syndrome
TTC #2
2nd IUI - hoping to try for our Rainbow in the Spring
Me: 30 DW (aka C): 29
Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12
***CP mentioned***
We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm. 8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy. We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET. I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013.
11/14/14 - Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good.
12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2
12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)
1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2
****All Welcome!****
We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.