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Another sex question

Is your sex drive back? Mine still sucks!
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    Yep! I'm getting it every which way! Totally helped that DH stopped being a twat waffle and stepped up w helping out and responsibility!
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    Pass. But it's good stuff when we do.
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    It was until I had my tubal.
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    No :( we both are to tired . I even offered last night and he said nodue to being tired
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    Yes, mostly. My husbands sex drive reappeared this past week, so that was REALLY fun.
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    Nope!  We've done it once PP, so that means in the past year, we've done it ONE time, since we never did it during pregnancy (on pelvic rest, severe pgal brain, not drive, etc)
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    Not really. I enjoy it when it happens but when I finally get all 3 kids to bed i would rather just sit and relax or sleep. That was so not the case before.
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    No.. I always have other things to do..
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    I have been so horny, but DH wasn't touching me while I was BF. Can't wait till he gets over his stupid phobia of being squirted with milk.

     

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    No. We usually do about 2x/week, but I can't say I really enjoy it greatly. It feels different since giving birth. :(

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    Mine has been back for a while and sex has been so good! I an so thankful. Hang in there ladies. It will come back!
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    I'm NOT in the mood! Wish I was. I can't even get wet for it.:(
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    Not at all. I think part of it is because I'm exhausted. The other part is because my orgasm now feels incredibly weak and really kind of strange. I'm not sure if it's due to weak pelvic floor muscles, my tubal, or the c-section. I'm hoping once I remember to work on my core strength and I get a little more sleep things will get better.
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    Nope! We've had sex one time pp. I think my lack of interest is a mix of being exhausted, taking Zoloft, and breastfeeding.

    I'm glad we're not the only ones though!
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    Mamackf said:
    I'm NOT in the mood! Wish I was. I can't even get wet for it.:(
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    I have been so horny, but DH wasn't touching me while I was BF. Can't wait till he gets over his stupid phobia of being squirted with milk.

    My DH is the same- he doesn't even want to go near my boobs! They very rarely leak now so I don't know why.

    But my sex drive was REALLY high for about 2-3 months after have Kinley. It's completely gone now :(
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    Weighing 6 lbs 10 oz and 20 inches long

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    Nope. I'd almost always rather relax or sleep, but we do try to do it once a week or so, and it's good to reconnect, as pp said. After DS1, it didn't truly reappear until 16 months pp when I got my period back. Then I got pregnant 2 months later. Ha. One of several reasons I want to wait longer before #3.
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    I feel so much better about not getting laid right now.

    My sex drive didn't stop but my DHs dropped off the map during 3rd trimester sex and LO moved and also PP. I literally got pity sex. Never again. Now he's gone and won't be back for a little bit. I hope his drive is back or I might die. I miss just practicing making babies



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    MeggsMMeggsM member
    Nope although it's slowly making a reappearance lately so that's exciting.
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