Disturbing!

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klauke_t13 · July 2014

Holy crap! My life seems a lot less f**ked up now!

shutaff · July 2014

HOLY SHIT. That is insane.

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OutdoorGirl10 · July 2014

Yeah, I didn't get past the first several posts, but wow.

haliebabyx3 · July 2014

Holy cow that makes my head hurt. I got to page 6 and had to stop. Being mobile doesn't help either.

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lookame3639 · July 2014

I like how she says in the daycare post she never felt her kids were in danger but in the post which she brings up her FIL she flat out says "what if he's watching my kids"

People often forget when you post things online in ANY forum it can be used against you....even in court....this could bite her in the ass if she's not careful...

nthomas1014 · July 2014

Im glad I didn't read past the first page!! Her fil sounds so creepy, I would never move in no matter what situation I was in.

nyagoc · July 2014

I also saw the link on the original post (page 2) where it showed the FIL. Dude just looks creepy. (https://www.phoenixvillenews.com/article/20090211/NEWS01/302119984#dfm_disqus_comments)

None the less, I'm with PP, if you're too nervous to change unless you're under the covers, you probably shouldn't open a day care at the home of a RSO.

I just don't get all of those white knights coming in to defend her. IJS

lookame3639 · July 2014

She seems to "forget" a lot of important things...i don't want to send my kiddo to her she may forget that they're even there (aside from the main issue of FIL is a RSO)

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Sarafar4 · July 2014

I read that whole post the other day and it turned my stomach. It doesn't matter that the OP is "a good mom" it's about FIL! I wonder if she planned on disclosing that little gem when meeting with new parents/clients. "BTW, it's no big deal but the owner of this house creeps on young girls with hidden cameras. Hope that's not an issue."

In the school where I work, all visitors have to turn in their license for a background check on the spot. He would not be allowed passed the lobby!

Allison7 · July 2014

So much insanity. And so many WKs!

tamarar5 · July 2014

Yikes. I have made some dumb decisions in my life, and I know that everyone is allowed to make their fair share of bad decisions... but really! How do you "forget" that your FIL is a sex offender, regardless of the age?

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Soymami2 · July 2014

Honestly, she's an idiot! How is that something you forget?
This is a perfect example of why mothers need to do their research prior to picking out a day care for their kids.

xxMiss2Mrs09xx · July 2014

Oh wow.... Couldn't get past page 1.....

KittyMisha · July 2014

lappyfoinker said:
I thought I read somewhere credible that sex offenders and psychopaths can never be "cured". Anyone else ever heard of that?

The recidivism rate for sex offenders is something like 90%. So it's not that they can't be cured, it's just highly unlikely.

Edit: I just looked this up, and the official recidivism rate (defined as being arrested for another sex offense after serving time for one) is closer to 20%, so there you go. Not as scary as I thought, but still pretty high.

[Deleted User] · July 2014

July lurker here (in L&D about to be induced in the morning) with nothing better to do. All I can say is wow! I couldn't get past page 3 before I just couldn't stomach it anymore. Can't believe her BMB all white knighted her like that... About a sex offender!!! BSC if you ask me.

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[Deleted User] · July 2014

@lappyfoinker‌ thank you!

JadaBlue · July 2014

While obviously a much more serious issue, it reminds me of the thread in which a BMB passionately defended a regular bitching about her in-laws buying the rest of her Pottery Barn nursery but not the $1000 glider she had worked *so hard* to match to her decor--said regular eventually stole the board's gift money for another member who suffered a loss (but eventually gave it back). We need to remember not to lose our collective mind if one of our beloved regulars goes off the rails.

NSAbby · July 2014

lappyfoinker said:

I thought I read somewhere credible that sex offenders and psychopaths can never be "cured". Anyone else ever heard of that?

Sex offenders can be "cured", pedophiles cannot.

A Sex Offender can be an 18yo who had sex with their 17yo gf/bf. It can be a sexter, a drunk who passed out naked in their front yard, a couple who were caught having sex in a public park, etc.

I personally know a "Sex Offender" who, as a teenager, was 6mo older than their partner. Parents got upset about a missed curfew, cops were called, and they are now a Sex Offender for statutory rape, since the partner wasn't legally old enough to consent.

The title gets thrown around a lot, but its the same title for "teenage mistakes" as it is for serial rapists.

The "crimes"/crimes are usually listed on the website, with their addresses. But not everyone bothers to read the "why".

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kiley820 · July 2014

So many things wrong with this! I get that sometimes people are left with no choice and do what you have to do in order to put a roof over your head and take care of your family....BUT, sounds like they just moved in to save money to buy a house? I get that, however, I personally would rather make sacrifices elsewhere. She stated she is not comfortable even changing into her pajamas or breastfeeding her child living in this home. WHAT?! How can you live like that?

And then to want to bring other people's children into this type of situation? Just....ugh.

Weezy56 · July 2014

I lurked the whole thread(s) and have come to the conclusion that March 14 is nucking futs with the exception of a few people. Their stupidity amazes me.

Jennicillin · July 2014

I saw that thread the other day, what a shit storm! I seriously couldn't believe the way the M14 crowd was actually standing up for that chick!

GinnyJ2012 · July 2014

I read that the other night and DH and I were discussing it. It's disgusting that her H would be ok with her and his kids living in that situation. I would rather live almost anywhere else than there.

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