I don't share this guy's political leanings, but I thought this NYTimes opinion piece was very good.
https://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/20/opinion/sunday/ross-douthat-the-parent-trap.html?_r=0
BFP #1 9/2010 (lost our baby at 21 weeks)
BFP #2 8/2011 (ectopic pregnancy)
BFP #3 10/2011 (chemical pregnancy)
BFP #4 12/2011 (Abigail born 8/15/12)
BFP #5 5/2013 (Griffin born 1/23/14 with heart defects, now repaired!)
Re: S/O mom arrested for daughter at park
And like @keags5496 there have been times I've been nervous about letting DS do something not because he's not safe or capable but because of the judgment from other parents, which could turn into having other parents call the police.