I need help. Good ole' F14 tell it like it is help.
I have the opportunity to go part time this fall. I'm a teacher and so id be giving up my classroom, moving districts and working part time mornings still teaching General Ed but the students are learning from a bilingual teacher in the afternoon. The difference per month for our family after factoring the difference in childcare etc would be $600. I'm torn. I don't want to go back full time. But I also don't know how $600 less a month will be for us. I also know that I can never get back the time with my LO. For those of you who went PT or left all together - what are ways you found to make cuts in your spending? Any ways you found to save more? Things you've found you never knew you could live without but are? Are you happy with your decision?
For those of you who are teachers ... I've only ever had my own elementary classroom. Many of the things I actually love about my job are the ways I put my own twist on things, management , movement breaks, incentives, parties, projects etc. And I'd be giving up some of that if I am now sharing a class. I'm also in a great school with a supportive staff. That being said I would he gaining time with my child obviously, and since id be PT ...not as extensive report cards, meetings, conferences etc. My question is this. Do you think teaching is teaching and I'll still love being with the students regardless of the position.... or do you think the day to day little things of teaching is what makes it more enjoyable. Don't know if I'm making sense. If you're a teacher maybe you've been there... I know there are a lot of you with different classroom experiences. I just am having such a hard time. I never thought I'd want to be part time but I just can't get my heart and 100% to these kids next year and I know that's not fair. And so want to be with LO. I've heard many tell me to run with the opportunity for a few years and I can always go back, and others tell me they love work and having time away. Wish I was clear cut. Blah. Ok end ramble!
Any thoughts would be great! Thanks for reading.
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We do not have debt and bought a house well within our means, so we could survive off one income (although barely). I think we just need it to mentally click that I've dropped 2 days pay, plus we've added in huge costs (daycare, diapers, etc).
I tend to say I love teaching for teaching. I've been in lots of different situations in the last five years, but I've always loved the kids. I'm super excited to have my own classroom in the fall after three years of not, but even something like that didn't impact how I felt about teaching.
For me, I'd do whatever it took to be at home the most with LO. I can teach full time when he's in school, but for now I absolutely want to be home with him.
I would also consider if half time is really going to be half time or if you are giving up half the pay and will still have to do 75% of the work. I have worked in places where halftime employees still had to attend meetings, participate in IEP meetings outside of contract hours and I would definitely think you still have to do grades. Is all this spelled out in your contract?
Even if you do part time, you will still establish relationships with your students and parents. It just takes time at a new school
I am doing the full time working mom thing for the first time as well...I was a SAHM with my first. It's going to be hard, but my husband has a flexible schedule and is very helpful and supportive. I would have probably taken a part time position if we didn't need my income right now.
If you decided to do part time, it's really important to cut where you can budget-wise . I started coloring my own hair, doing my own nails, getting rid of cable , no Starbucks, etc... The day to day things we spend money on are the ones that really add up. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!
The money saving tips are awesome, regardless. I'm going to sit down and figure out just how much we spend on groceries bc we are very much "what do you want, let's go get it !" I think ill allot a certain amount for groceries and stick to it!
As far as the job...
I'd be teaching language arts and math in the AM and then they switch classrooms to learn a second language in the afternoons. They learn social studies and science in the PM's.
I should really call on Monday and ask more questions based on your feedback. I should clarify who does conferences, majority of report cards, Etc and how meetings work.
@RedSoxGirl10 you are absolutely right about being able to do my current job pretty easily as I have been in it for 3 years and I have it down. This would be starting a new district, and attending new teacher meetings etc (although I wonder how that works when you're part time?) moving classrooms and setting up a new one. Luckily it's the same grade so I can use a lot of the same things.
My DH works nights and a rotating schedule so we would need minimal childcare and have a friend that would take LO for the few hours a week we would need care- just when DH gets held over and maybe and hour a day if he's really exhausted. So no childcare costs but there would be some hauling of LO to friends house and picking him up (about 25 min round trip.) I would probably have to pump once while there. The good news is on Mondays they have a late start for AM teacher planning time so i'd be done at 9:30 that day/ no time with the kids. It's just such a different position than I've done before. Ugh still so torn.
Thanks again to you all