MOTY-others need not apply.....

Re: MOTY-others need not apply.....

• luvboston member

  July 2014

  Hugs it happens have a drink!

  6 m/c
  Anovulatory cycles, increased Synthroid Diagnosed Sep 2010

  Natural cycle Dec 2010 BFP M/C 6 1/2 Weeks, D&E Jan 2011
  1 Clomid/Ovidrel BFN May 2011
  Natural cycle Aug 2011 BFP M/C 4 Weeks
  1 IUI Sept 2011 BFP M/c 7 weeks
  Provera Dec 2011 BFP M/C 3 Weeks

  DQ ALPHA HLA MATCH, High NK Cells Diagnosed Dec 2011
  IVF March 2012 BFP m/c 4weeks 5 days (IL, Prednisone)
  IVF#2w/DS July 2012 MEGA FAILURE BFN (IL, Dexamethasone)
  Diagnosed No real HLA Match, DQ Beta Triad, High TNF, Low NK Cells
  Oct 2012 Natural Cycle m/c 4wks (Lovenox, Prednisone) 
  Went to Beer Center- high tnf, low lad, implantation failure

  Nov/Dec 2012 LIT Treatment

  Dec 12 Humira
  Jan 2013 BFP
  Humira,LIT,Prednisone, Lovenox, IVIG, Baby Aspirin
  Miracle Born August 2013 Premature
  
  Yours doesn't have to be a sad story
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

  
  
  

  
  

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• PennyLane26 member

  July 2014

  Poor mama. Baby will be fine! Don't be so hard on yourself. (Although I'd have the same reaction, I'm sure!)

  dx: MFI 0% morph & low count. Occasional Anovulatory cycles.
  

  
  

  TTC #1

  • IVF #1 4/21/12 - c/p
    
  • IVF#2 8/1/12 - BFP! DD arrived 4/10/2013.

  
  

  
  

  
  

  TTC #2
  

  • FET #1 3/18/14 - BFP! DS arrived 11/19/2014.

  
  

  
  

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• pinkmickey24 member

  July 2014

  Hugs! I know I would react the same way, but just remind yourself she is okay and give her a few extra snuggles.

  ~TTC since July 2010~

  CD3 Bloodwork:Normal 

  HSG-Clear 

  SA:Low Morph 

  IVF with ICSI #1: ER 12/16 (4 ER/3 Mature/0 Fertilized) 

  IVF with ICSI #2: ER 5/17 (4 ER/4 Mature/3 Fertilized)/ET 5/20 (2 embryos transferred)-BFN 

  IVF with PICSI #3: ER 9/8 (11 ER/8 Mature/7 Fertilized)/ET 9/13 (2 AA blastocysts transferred) 

  Beta#1, 9/26/12: 719 Beta#2, 9/28/12: 1,436 Beta#3, 10/1/12: 3,446

  1st u/s on 10/10/12: It's Twins! We found out on 12/16/12 that we were having two BOYS!

  C & D were born on 5/16/13 at 10:46 am and 10:47 am

  
  
  

   

  

  
  

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• Jenny935 member

  July 2014

  I know I would feel the same way, but if she seems fine and the ped isn't worried, a few extra snuggles will be the perfect medicine. I'm sorry you are dealing with it!

  Married 6/08, TTC 7/09

  MC w/ D&C 3/11 ~ 9.5 weeks

  CP/MC 1/12 ~ 5 weeks

  2 IUI's w/ BFN

  IVF 6/12 ~ 8R, 0F ~ Rescue ISCI gave us 3dt of 2 (6 cell, 9+ cell)

  DS born ~ 3/3/13

  IVF 6/14 ~ Operation Sibling ~ 10R, 5F ~ 5dt of 1 Blast

  Beta 1: 1600+, Beta 2: 4588

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• kmc84 member

  July 2014

  Thank you ladies-your support really means a lot!
  
  She was all snuggles and giggles while we were reading books before bed ❤ it made it much easier to lay her down tonight. We read a few extra books and definitely snuggled and rocked longer tonight

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  TTC# 1 since 5/10
  Me:34 Type 1 Diabetes, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Hypothyroid DH:35 Perfect
  DX: Unexplained IF
  Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
  IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
  IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
  IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
  Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13
  

  TTC #2

  IVF #4 May/June 2014 ER 6/4 18R 8M 8F ET 6/9 1 blast, 2 frosties

  Beta 6/18 BFFN

  
  

  FET of 2 blasts 7/24...BFP!

  Healthy baby girl born at 36w3d on 3/17/15
  
  TTC#3
  IVF #5 June 2018- PGS planned, no surviving embryos
  IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
  IVF #7 August 2019-....?

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• e74 member

  July 2014

  Big hugs!

  DS#1 born 9/23/06 

  Twins DS#2 and 3 born at 31 weeks, 3 days due to a short cervix on 8/2/13.

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• mnj05 member

  July 2014

  While I haven't dropped H, I have dropped a baby before. My mom ran an in-home daycare and I was rocking one of the babies in the rocking chair and she just wiggled until she slipped out. She was totally fine and I cried but now she is a senior in high school (holy crap!) and she's on track to be at the top of her class.
  
  I get it and I would cry even harder if it were H. She loves you and won't remember!

   
  
  TTC #1 since 3/2011
  DX: anovulatory and severe MFI
  DH is a testicular cancer survivor
  IVF#1 w/ICSI lupron, gonal f, ovidrel
  ER 6/15/12 6R 6M 6F! ET 6/20/12
  Beta #1: 154 Beta #2: 509 Beta #3: 7326
  Baby Boy born 3/1/2013
  

  TTC#2: 6/2014 all testing came back normal

  IVF#2 (#1 for LO#2) 9/2014 - 17R 10M 10F 4 blasts frozen on day 6.

  FET #1 10/15/14 - Beta #1: 216  Beta #2: 823

  
  Baby Boy born 7/10/2015

  
  

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• mdiblasi10 member

  July 2014

  Hugs! Glad to hear she was fine and enjoying some snuggles with Mom

  Dx: Unexplained Infertility

  
  

  TTC #1 

  IUI's #1 - #3 Clomid = BFN's, IUI #4 Follistim = BFP

  Grayson arrived via emergency c-section on 7/28/12!
  
  TTC #2 

  IUI's #1 - #4 Follistim = BFN's

  IVF #1 w/ ICSI + PGS: Lupron/Follistim/Menopur

  ER 4/13 - 19R, 13F, 4 PGS tested embryos, 1 normal

  5/14 FET: BFP. Beta #1: 123, Beta #2: 327, Beta #3: 854

  Cora arrived 1/23/15 via RCS!

  
  

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• jessica_gail2 member

  July 2014

  Big hugs mama!!!

  MF (low motility) - Began stims for IVF#1 7/21/12

  ER 8/2/12 - 14 eggs retrieved, 12 mature and ICSI'd, 6 fertilized. ET 8/7 - 2 embies. Beta#1 8/17: 143! Beta#2 8/20: 590! Beta#3 8/22: 1,162! 1st US 9/4: one beautiful little bean with the best sounding HB I've ever heard!

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• Robeano member

  July 2014

  I get it, I totally do. I recently tripped while holding Hannah and we both fell and hit the ground pretty hard. I was so much more upset than she was. (and in more pain I think too!) But just know you're a great momma!!
  

  Diagonsed PCOS TTC since May 2009
  

  First M/C December 2010 Second M/C August 2011
  Oct 2011~Second round clomid 50 mg; BFN
  Nov 2011~Third round clomid 50 mg: BFP
  Dec 11- Beta #1 91;Dec 13- Beta #2 186.2
  Dec 27- third miscarriage
  May 25th- Beta #1 369;May 27th- Beta #2 798
  Baby girl born Jan 23, 9lbs 3oz, 21 1/2" long
  May 27th-Beta #1 80; May 29th- Beta #2 304; May 31st- Beta #3 860
  

  

  

  

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• TJ1979 member

  July 2014

  Oh no! Big hugs to you both. You're a wonderful mama, and these things do happen. Especially with slippery wiggly toddlers. Go easy on yourself.

  TTC with PCOS since November 2009
  

  IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
  IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
  IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
  beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
  beta #2 11/28 = 2055
  Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
  Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
   
  

  
  

  

  

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• Roxie5739 member

  July 2014

  Poor you and poor LO. I know you feel awful but as PP said, it happens. Have a drink and font be too hard on yourself

  Multiple ectopics, 2 failed IVF's
  IVF #1: Did not get to ET, embies all failed PGD (major chromosomal defects)
  IVF #2: We have 2 chromosomally perfect embies as a result of PGD (Boy/Girl) 1 failed the thaw (Girl) Transferred 1, yet ended as a c/p
  Thought it was the end of our TTC Journey 6/20/2012
  SHOCK BFP 9/28/2012: IT'S A BOY! and everything is normal !!!!!!

  Little A born 38w 2d on 05/23/13 and is a true miracle for this IF Vet!
   

                

   

  
  

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• jesselayne8 member

  July 2014

  Hugs!

  
  
  TTC#1 for 19 months with PCOS and MFI IUI#3 + injectables = BFP!!!!  Beta#1-134(13dpiui) Beta #2-392(15dpiui) 
  #1 born December 2011
  TTC#2 - Beta #1 -51@10dpo Beta#2 -1353 @16dpo
  #2 born May 2013
  TTC # 3 June 2014 BFP 12-1-14
  #3 born August 2015 
  #4!!!!!!! due June 2017 

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• jmorta04 member

  July 2014

  Awww poor mama! It hurts us so much more than it does them most of the time! Hope you enjoyed the extra snuggles.

  Married July 2011; TTC since April 2011; DX: MFI
  IVF #1 in August 2012: BFP!
  L was born on May 5, 2013, 8lb. 6oz.
  PAIF/SAIF welcome!

  Our Project Make A Baby

  

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• kmc84 member

  July 2014

  Thank you ladies! She seems to be 100% today squealing, chasing the dogs around the house, climbing the couch....

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  TTC# 1 since 5/10
  Me:34 Type 1 Diabetes, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Hypothyroid DH:35 Perfect
  DX: Unexplained IF
  Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
  IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
  IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
  IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
  Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13
  

  TTC #2

  IVF #4 May/June 2014 ER 6/4 18R 8M 8F ET 6/9 1 blast, 2 frosties

  Beta 6/18 BFFN

  
  

  FET of 2 blasts 7/24...BFP!

  Healthy baby girl born at 36w3d on 3/17/15
  
  TTC#3
  IVF #5 June 2018- PGS planned, no surviving embryos
  IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
  IVF #7 August 2019-....?

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• ccam member

  July 2014

  So happy that she's doing better today! I know how you felt though - we all have our MOTY moments.

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  Trying for #1 since May 2010   l   DX ~ Unexplained Infertility June 2011

  IUI #1&2 = BFN; IUI #3 = BFP, m/c @ 6 weeks

  November '11 ~ IVF#1 ~ ER 11/18 (29R, 17F) ~ 5dt of one beautiful blast on 11/23 = BFP!!

  Beta #1 9dp5dt = 116, P4 = 28 ~ Beta #2 13dp5dt = 700 ~ Beta #3 20dp5dt = 9500, P4 = 26

  1st u/s 12/27 - hb of 156!! EDD 8.10.12    **TEAM GREEN!**

  Sweet baby boy born 8.18.12

  

  Trying for #2

  FET #1 - October '13 - c/p   l   FET #2 - December '13 - cancelled    l   FET #2.2 - 1.30.14 - BFN

  ~ More testing - hysteroscopy, endometrial biopsy & more b/w - all normal / negative~

  Surprise BFP while waiting on FET #3 ~ beta #1 500; beta #2 1600; first u/s 4/3 - measuring 5w5d, no hb yet!; 2nd u/s 4/10 - hb 132, measuring 6w6d - EDD 11.29.14     **TEAM GREEN!**

  Beautiful baby girl born 11.24.14

   

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• imoverit member

  July 2014

  I hate when things like that happen. Ive had lo fall off so many things and felt so awful. Its not a good feeling.

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• Mayzie15 member

  July 2014

  So glad she's back to herself. I'm sure it really scared you - hope your feeling better too

  Me 38 MH 41 - TTC since June 2010 - dx with Severe MFI. Straight to IVF with ICSI. IVF #1 - ER 06/13/12 - 9 Eggs Retrieved - 4 ICSI'd - only 2 fert. 06/15/12 - 2DT - 3 cell & 6 cell with fragmentation. Beta 06/29/12 - IVF #1 = BFN. 07/20/12 - WTF Appt -Told by our RE to quit IVF. Second Opinion from RE is good. IVF#2 - November 2012. Estradiol Pills Started 11/6. Stims start 11/16. ER 11/26 - 7 eggs retrieved - all mature. 4 fertilized with ICSI. ET 11/29 Transferred 3 embryos. Beta is 12/10. 1st Beta 81 2nd Beta 160 and 3rd beta 360!!! First U/S 12/21/12 - We saw one beautiful gest. sac. 2nd U/S is 01/04/2013 - H/B 183 02/05/13 - NT Scan - everything looks good and IT'S A BOY!  Aiden was born 08/20/2013.
  

  IVF #2 is in progress.  ER was 05/12/14 - 11 eggs retrieved, 8 fertilized with ICSI.  ET was 05/15/14 - we transferred 3 embryos as we did on the cycle my son was conceived.  We were able to freeze 3 embryos. Beta is scheduled for 05/26/14.  1st beta - 111.  2nd beta - 159 didn't double 3rd beta Friday 5/30) - not a lot of hope left. Beta # 3 is 247 - probably ectopic.  Beta # 4 is 813 - possibly vanishing multiple sydrome?  06/05/14 - 5w4days - first U/S - we see a gestational sac and yolk - still have hope!  06/17/14 - 7w1day - U/S and saw and heard the heartbeat - Finally!  06/27/14 - 8w4days - Baby and heartbeat look and sound great   EDD 02/01/14 and It's a boy!
  

  
   "Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."
  
  
  

  
  

  

  
  

   
  
  
  

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• kbeach82 member

  July 2014

  Don't beat yourself up so much! You are human and it was an accident. I'm glad that LO is ok. If it makes you feel any better, I constantly bang S and B into walls, etc. when I'm carrying them around together. I always feel so bad, but they forgive me more quickly than I forgive myself!

  DX: DOR and MFI 

   

  IVF w/ICSI brought us our 1st precious miracle
  
  V born via induction 4.29.11
  
  TTC #2: IVF (MDLF) August/September 2012
  
  ER 9/7: 6R, 5M, 4F ET 9/12: 5dt of 2 blasts 
  
  +HPT 9/17! Beta #1 (9/25) = 1,000 Beta #2 (9/27) = 1,860 U/S #1 (10/11)...TWINS!
  
  1/8/13 - It's a..boy and a girl!!   

   

  S&B born via induction 5.8.13

   

  

   

   

   

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• mcgeeva member

  July 2014

  Eek I would of freaked out! But it happens. I always think im going to do that or fall down the stairs. Anything can happen. I'm hoping this son doesn't have the one incident of rolling off the bed. That totally freaked me out the one time it happened. Glad shes okay

  Married: 5/09 ~ TTC Since: 10/10 ~ PCOS ~ Progesterone from 10/10 - 2/11 ~ HSG on 3/18 - Clear ~ Started Metformin 1000mg & Clomid 50mg 2/11 ~ Metformin upped to 1500mg 4/6 ~ 6/7 Now going to SG and put on Clomid, Ovidrel, Gonal F, Prometrium, Estrace ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP!!!!!! March 6th our little man was born. 

  6/17/13 - Ovidrel, Follistim, Prometrium ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP! March 17th our St. Pattys day baby arrived

  10/29/17 - Started process for IVF, got pregnant & miscarried a 2nd time since summer. 2/22 started stims - Menopur, Gonal F, Cetrotide - retrieval 3/6 - , PIO, estrace 3xday - FET 4/18 = Beta 1: 616; Beta 2: 1342 = BFP 

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• summererobinson member

  July 2014

  as long as shes ok dont worry about it. Things happen, kids get hurt. My son likes to climb out of the bed now and tends to fall more than climb.

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• Mnerani member

  July 2014

  I'm so sorry. Recently, I bit DS's finger HARD (pretending to eat his hands as a game and a finger slipped in), and once I fell ON TOP of him while walking down a steep, rocky hiking path. I was totally inconsolable after that last one. As in, I was hyperventilating and couldn't regain control for a good half hour. Being the mom is hard.

  DH and I are Americans living an adventure in Kenya since 2011

  DX: PCOS (annovulatory)

  Feb 2012: IUI #1 w/ only 1M sperm and a single follie = BFP! 

  Nov 2012: Little buddy born in Kenya

  Nov 2013: Trying for a second, still w PCOS

  Dec 2013: IUI cycle canceled for non-response

  Jan 2014: Break cycle BFP!

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

  

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