I don't have very many people in my life that I trust. To this day only immediate family knows about my son and he's 10 months old. There is a "secret" Facebook group for immediate family because some live cross country and the closest are 100 miles away. I still won't post anything on there till 20+ weeks with this lo. Whenever it feels right. I haven't told family who we see yet. My dad figured it out and I think mom did too. But as far as social media my children stay off it.