May 2014 Moms

BF moms - NOT using bottles

The longer I breastfeed successfully, the less I want to add bottle feedings. Partly because I want to be able to say I've succeeded at BF and partly because I'm lazy. I'm not in love with the idea of being chained to my baby for the next 10+ months, but I really don't want to put her on formula and I think I like the idea of pumping even less. Pumping would just add more complication to my life, and it's not a realistic option for me right now with 2u3.

For those of you who have EBF before and nursed exclusively rather than ever using bottles, what was it like? I'm not sure exactly what questions to ask, so just tell me about your experience in general: how you managed your time and balanced your day, when breastfeeding started to take up less of your time and energy (DD is 7 wks and I still feel tethered to her and the house), how much of your nursing had to be done in public and how you handled it, how you handled being away from your LO (or if you kept your LO with you at all times, how did other people respond to that?), etc. Basically, what made nursing exclusively better (or worse) than nursing and pumping or supplementing formula?

For those of you going bottle free for the first time, how's it working out for you? What made you decide to do it, what keeps you going, and how long do you plan to continue?


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Re: BF moms - NOT using bottles

  • We are bottle free. It's been an adjustment for sure. The feeling of being tied down. I was naive to not realize the commitment.

    That being said. I love the relationship we are building.

    I do have both bottles and formula in the house. And a small stash of pumped milk. I pumped once every or every other day. I get an oz. The longer I can go without introducing a bottle the better. I have this stuff for emergencies and dh knows he can use the pumped milk if he ever needs it. He's convinced ds won't take it but knows he can finger feed him if need be. Should life ever happen and he gets starving.

    I am quite proud of how far I've gotten. But there have been moments I've wanted to give up. And it made me envy the women strong enough to make that tough decision.

    My goal is one year to breastfeed from the breast. I will start solids at 6 months and plan to introduce a cup around 7 or 8 months. I hope to put BM in it as he gets more efficient with the glass and feed directly from the breast less to allow for some form of weaning. I plan to pump and provide as much breast milk as I can surpassing a year in hopes in addition to cows milk. I'll donate whatever is left over.
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  • We didn't do it with our first (I breastfed but also supplemented with formula because we had a rocky start). Now with DD2 she breastfeeds so well that I have yet to introduce a bottle. I haven't pumped at all either (although I have one from my first). I have thought about pumping occasionally so I could have an emergency stash but I'm not sure. I am liking just nursing on demand.
  • MK1013 said:

    This was me, but everyone scared me out of my mind about "what if I'm not there to feed her" so we just introduced a bottle the other night. We gave one a day to her for 3 days in a row and then... I forgot. It's actually a hassle preparing a bottle. I'm going to just start giving her one every other night because really, I don't want to give her one at all.... :/

    Sorry, no help, but wish I was going the true EBF route.

    This is me too. Just pumped 3 oz of milk this afternoon for first time, and did it BC I got scared from some other threads about using bottle at least once before 8 weeks "just in case". The cleaning of the pump parts is a hassle though so I don't plan to make a habit out of it.
  • I am but not by choice. LO has refused the bottle everything time. I don't know what to do when I have to be away from her longer than 3 hours! ...which is going to happen in about a month.

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  • I didn't intend to post and run, but it's my birthday and I didn't realize DH was planning to take me out. Sorry!

    Wow, you ladies are committed! I have a small stash of milk saved up from my milk saver and a handful of pumping sessions, and we have given DD 3 or 4 bottles since she was born, but the more I nurse her, the more I want to keep it up. I can't say I'll stick with it exclusively for the long haul but I do want to keep it up for at least a few more months. Maybe I'll keep giving her a bottle a week just to keep up the habit, then reevaluate at 6 months.

    Thanks for your input, ladies, and good luck with your choices! :)


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    DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
    DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in


  • We are bottle free. I don't want to deal with formula and 2u2 on your own doesn't leave much time for pumping. It's going fine other than my mom grumping because she wants to feed him. We tried leaving the boys with my mom and running to the gun range for a few hours (I was able to get a little pumped milk) but he fought the bottle like crazy. We have tried a total of 4 times and he only took it once. The other 3 times it's a fight to get him to eat. I want him to be willing to do a bottle in case if anything happens and I can't BF any more.

    I had a friend who's baby refused the bottle. They tried every one out there with no success. She just had to wait until she could at least take a purée or else go out after her last feed of the night.

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    We've tried giving DS a few bottles, some with pumped milk and a couple with pre mix formula that we keep in for emergencies or if i'm going to be away for more than a few hours and haven't any pumped. 

    He was fine with the bottle when he was newborn but the grandparents babysat for us last night so we could go out to eat and only managed to get him to take 1oz from the bottle. It's been about 4 weeks since he last had a bottle and he seems to have forgotten what to do with it, apparently he kept chewing on the nipple, he was screaming hungry when we got home from dinner. We might try a different brand bottle becasue I would like him to take one even though I plan on BF for a year
  • @pistolpackinmomma‌ Gun range? I'm so jealous. With the exception of the hunting certification test I took 2 years ago, I haven't handled a firearm since early 2011 when I was 9 weeks pregnant with DS.

    Believe it or not, that's actually not the most redneck thing I've said today... :-?


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    DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
    DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in


  • jenb_99 said:

    @pistolpackinmomma‌ Gun range? I'm so jealous. With the exception of the hunting certification test I took 2 years ago, I haven't handled a firearm since early 2011 when I was 9 weeks pregnant with DS.

    Believe it or not, that's actually not the most redneck thing I've said today... :-?

    My gift for mothers day/my bday/ our anniversary was a 9mm. DH sent it out immediately to get some work done on it and it came back last week. We went and put 300 rounds through it. I had a blast. That was the first I had gotten to shoot since December 2011 when I took my concealed carry class. The gap in my shooting showed at first but I made a quick recovery. ;) Oh how I had missed shooting!!

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  • I very rarely give a bottle. Only time she gets one is if I leave her with dh or my mom. If I'm out in public I usually try to find a pretty quiet are and somewhere that's not busy. Luckily the mall I was at the other day had a lounge area where I could bf without tons of people walking by. When I'm out in public I try to feed her on both beasts and get her as full as possible to minimize my feedings. Still getting used to doing it publicly

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  • jenb_99 said:

    @pistolpackinmomma‌ Gun range? I'm so jealous. With the exception of the hunting certification test I took 2 years ago, I haven't handled a firearm since early 2011 when I was 9 weeks pregnant with DS.

    Believe it or not, that's actually not the most redneck thing I've said today... :-?

    My gift for mothers day/my bday/ our anniversary was a 9mm. DH sent it out immediately to get some work done on it and it came back last week. We went and put 300 rounds through it. I had a blast. That was the first I had gotten to shoot since December 2011 when I took my concealed carry class. The gap in my shooting showed at first but I made a quick recovery. ;) Oh how I had missed shooting!!
    Off topic but what make? My dad bought me a kahr when I moved. I love the little thing.

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  • My guy will take milk from anything. Boob, bottle, DH, MIL....any type of nipple...he doesn't care. It is always BM, but we are luckily very blessed.
  • KBowen715 said:

    My guy will take milk from anything. Boob, bottle, DH, MIL....any type of nipple...he doesn't care. It is always BM, but we are luckily very blessed.

    Yes you are! DS was like this, except he also took formula -- any brand, powder or liquid, mixed with BM or by itself. It was so nice.


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    DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
    DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in


  • JKBMA2014 said:

    jenb_99 said:

    @pistolpackinmomma‌ Gun range? I'm so jealous. With the exception of the hunting certification test I took 2 years ago, I haven't handled a firearm since early 2011 when I was 9 weeks pregnant with DS.

    Believe it or not, that's actually not the most redneck thing I've said today... :-?

    My gift for mothers day/my bday/ our anniversary was a 9mm. DH sent it out immediately to get some work done on it and it came back last week. We went and put 300 rounds through it. I had a blast. That was the first I had gotten to shoot since December 2011 when I took my concealed carry class. The gap in my shooting showed at first but I made a quick recovery. ;) Oh how I had missed shooting!!
    Off topic but what make? My dad bought me a kahr when I moved. I love the little thing.
    Smith & Wesson M&P. I'm a Smith girl. ;)

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  • JKBMA2014 said:

    jenb_99 said:

    @pistolpackinmomma‌ Gun range? I'm so jealous. With the exception of the hunting certification test I took 2 years ago, I haven't handled a firearm since early 2011 when I was 9 weeks pregnant with DS.

    Believe it or not, that's actually not the most redneck thing I've said today... :-?

    My gift for mothers day/my bday/ our anniversary was a 9mm. DH sent it out immediately to get some work done on it and it came back last week. We went and put 300 rounds through it. I had a blast. That was the first I had gotten to shoot since December 2011 when I took my concealed carry class. The gap in my shooting showed at first but I made a quick recovery. ;) Oh how I had missed shooting!!
    Off topic but what make? My dad bought me a kahr when I moved. I love the little thing.
    Smith & Wesson M&P. I'm a Smith girl. ;)
    Oh nice ;) I carry a little .38 s&w in my purse. You can go wrong

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  • giggler25 said:


    This is me too. Just pumped 3 oz of milk this afternoon for first time, and did it BC I got scared from some other threads about using bottle at least once before 8 weeks "just in case". The cleaning of the pump parts is a hassle though so I don't plan to make a habit out of it.

    I'm living to eat my words. We can't gt DD to take a bottle. We have tried medela and Dr browns over the past 2 days and she just pushes it out of her mouth. Apparently I will be EBF no bottles after all..... :/
  • JKBMA2014 said:

    JKBMA2014 said:

    jenb_99 said:

    @pistolpackinmomma‌ Gun range? I'm so jealous. With the exception of the hunting certification test I took 2 years ago, I haven't handled a firearm since early 2011 when I was 9 weeks pregnant with DS.

    Believe it or not, that's actually not the most redneck thing I've said today... :-?

    My gift for mothers day/my bday/ our anniversary was a 9mm. DH sent it out immediately to get some work done on it and it came back last week. We went and put 300 rounds through it. I had a blast. That was the first I had gotten to shoot since December 2011 when I took my concealed carry class. The gap in my shooting showed at first but I made a quick recovery. ;) Oh how I had missed shooting!!
    Off topic but what make? My dad bought me a kahr when I moved. I love the little thing.
    Smith & Wesson M&P. I'm a Smith girl. ;)
    Oh nice ;) I carry a little .38 s&w in my purse. You can go wrong
    My carry gun is a bodyguard .380. I love it!

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  • JKBMA2014 said:

    JKBMA2014 said:

    jenb_99 said:

    @pistolpackinmomma‌ Gun range? I'm so jealous. With the exception of the hunting certification test I took 2 years ago, I haven't handled a firearm since early 2011 when I was 9 weeks pregnant with DS.

    Believe it or not, that's actually not the most redneck thing I've said today... :-?

    My gift for mothers day/my bday/ our anniversary was a 9mm. DH sent it out immediately to get some work done on it and it came back last week. We went and put 300 rounds through it. I had a blast. That was the first I had gotten to shoot since December 2011 when I took my concealed carry class. The gap in my shooting showed at first but I made a quick recovery. ;) Oh how I had missed shooting!!
    Off topic but what make? My dad bought me a kahr when I moved. I love the little thing.
    Smith & Wesson M&P. I'm a Smith girl. ;)
    Oh nice ;) I carry a little .38 s&w in my purse. You can go wrong
    My carry gun is a bodyguard .380. I love it!
    @pistolpackinmomma‌
    Omg I literally just held that gun the other day at shooters world. I didn't like my grip on it so he showed me one similar but you're able to add an extended clip which made my grip much better. It is a nice little gun though. My husband wanted to get it. I should have let him. They had a huge sale on all s&w

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  • My girl will take from anything as well! She's only given breastmilk but I pump once a morning and while I'm working (couple hours a day,3 days a week.) We use medela bottles and ive even been able to stash about 17 bags in the freezer! ( :
  • MK1013 said:

    @giggler25‌ try Platex Drop-Ins. DS transitioned to them well when I decided to stop breastfeeding him and this little one takes it well once every other day. Maybe it's the bottle or maybe it's luck.. Worth a shot.

    I will try -- thank you!!
  • I stopped working when DD1 was 8months old. After I was home for a few weeks she started refusing BM from Anything that wasn't the boob so I went back to exclusively nursing. By that point she was nursing consistently every 2.5-3 hours so I could get away for 2 hours if I wanted to. that's also when she started actually eating food and by 12 months old we were down to nursing only twice a day when she woke up for the day and at bedtime.

    DD2 hasn't had a bottle yet. With 2U2 I can't find time to pump. Right now it is a little frustrating having the baby attached to me 24/7. DH is also a little upset that he can't watch her. But at this point I think I'd rather have it this way than dealing with pumping. And things will get better in 1-2months when she becomes more consistent with her feedings.
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  • @mudgy That is what I did with ds1 for a year and am doing with ds2 who is currently 9 wks. Did your boys know how to use a bottle at all? My ds1 refused them completely since I hardly ever introduced them. I just worry about this a little in case I ever have to be away from ds2.
  • ::Does not compute::
    There is no possible way I could survive without H giving bottles. Mamma needs a break, yo. 

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