Pregnant after a Loss

Today is the day...

Today is the day that I would have given birth to my first baby. Unfortunately, that pregnancy ended in a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks. It's crazy how hard it can hit you all over again, after months of barely thinking about it. Life distracts us, but the pain never truly subsides.

It is such a beautiful day outside today. A cold front has swept through our area, so I have spent much of the day outdoors to reflect on my baby's life. Today, I am 12 weeks pregnant with my rainbow. I am trying to remain hopeful that everything will work out this time. But, any spare T&Ps would be very much appreciated.

My thoughts go out to all of you who have also experienced this terribly sad day. <3

Re: Today is the day...

  • That is such a painful milestone. Lots of t & p's for you. It is very hard to miss what feels like what should have been, even while looking forward to what will be. Take gentle care of yourself today.
    Baby GIRL born 12/11/14!!
    MC @ 8 wks 7/6/13 - ectopic @ 6 wks 12/28/13

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  • Much love on this difficult day (((hugs)))
    ~All are welcome~
    MC 23/01/2013 natural @ 7 Weeks

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  • Sending big ((hugs)).

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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    Many hugs! I know how hard is to pass the milestones, specially when they have a big meaning. Lots of love!



    Mummy to 2 wonderful children
    Noah (2011) & Lily (2014)
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    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • I know how hard it is. (hugs)
    -Lily
    EDD: 1/27/15
    So excited for our rainbow baby!
  • ((hugs))

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

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    DS born 10/22/2008
    DD born 12/23/2014

    m/c @10wks 12/2007
    m/c @4wks 3/2014


  • Sending Big ((Hugs)) your way.
    Me- 27 w/PCOS     DH - 28
    TTC since December 2012 
    BFP 6/29/2013 - EDD 3/16/14 - MMC 9/5/2013
    Diagnosed with PCOS and taking metformin 750 mg  twice a day
    April 2014 -  - 1st ICI Cycle - BFP 5/15/14 EDD: 1/20/15
    A/S 8-22-14 - Its a BOY!!
    12/15 Checkup & heard his beautiful heartbeat
    ALL WELCOME -
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  • The milestone days are hard -- and bittersweet when you're expecting your rainbow. {{{hugs}}}

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    First-time mom, 35+, parenting after a loss (mmc Oct. 2012 @ 8 wks), ttc for a year after loss

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  • ((((Hugs))))
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
  • Lots of ((hugs)) headed your way!

    My fur-babies Chuck Norris, Stella, and Lucy
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    BFP #1 1/4/14; EDD 9/16/14;  mc 1/17/14 
    BFP #2 3/12/14; baby girl born 11/21/14          
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  • ((Hugs)) to you!
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    ((Hugs))
    For SuzyQ
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    BFP #1 12/31/13, EDD 09/12/14, MMC Discovered 02/20/14 (10w6d) Est. Loss @ 8-9w, MC 02/22/14
    BFP #2 06/25/14, EDD 02/28/15 Grow Baby, Grow!
    It's a BOY!!
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