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Re: May I vent???? Please? I'll send cookies!

• JeffandLeslie member

  July 2014

  Is the date set in stone? I would say I am happy to plan a party on a day I can be there...

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• jlpev member

  July 2014

  O that's no fun.

  

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• minerswife17 member

  July 2014

  @JeffandLeslie no the date isn't set in stone but he seemed adamant about the party being on her actual bday.  

  
  

  @nowababy DH said the same thing lol, 

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• JeffandLeslie member

  July 2014

  Yeah I'm with @nowababy‌ on this one. I'm not planning a party I can't attend.

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• MomIn2013 member

  July 2014

  I would probably contact the people he wants me to contact, but I wouldn't be doing any planning in addition to that.

  

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• jag101 member

  July 2014

  It sounds like he is just doing it at the spur of the moment, and hasn't thought out the other details like that your out of town. I can see where he's trying to do something nice for your mom, but I understand how you would be bummed out too, as it sounds like you really care and really want to be there. Hopefully you get a chance to do something special with your mom too.
  

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• bumpuser8448316 member

  July 2014

  I'm sorry, I would be bummed too. I would suck it up and do it for my mom though.

  
  

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• hlm184 member

  July 2014

  4 days??  That's ridiculous!  I'm planning a surprise party for my mom and I started six months in advance!

  
  

  

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• dizzycooks member

  July 2014

  Ugh I hate bdays. I am sorry your stepdad can't be more flexible.

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• notkateanymore member

  July 2014

  I would just tell him that's not enough times nd turn your plans with your mom into the surprise party...problem solved!

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• raraavis28 member

  July 2014

  notkateanymore said:

  I would just tell him that's not enough times nd turn your plans with your mom into the surprise party...problem solved!

  This....tell him it would be more of a surprise if it wasn't on her actual bday!
  
  Sorry you have to deal w/ that....sounds like a pain and not a fun spot for you to be in!
  

   
  

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• minerswife17 member

  July 2014

  Ahhhh! X( I really want to scream now. I just got a text from 1 of the guests that I invited (for my SD) saying " I just talked to (your SD) and he said party is off) WHAT?!?!?! I had to hear from a guest??? I'm running away. ~X(

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