October 2013 Moms

Calling LO monkey

dovetail223dovetail223 member
edited July 2014 in October 2013 Moms
I was lurking over on parenting and there was a thread about the term monkey as a racial slur...which I've obviously heard of before. But some of the ppl think it's inappropriate to call you kid monkey because of this fact. Is this true?! I call DD monkey so much she answers to it now :-S

Re: Calling LO monkey

  • CatieGCatieG member
    I've certainly heard that it can be used as a racial slur but I wouldn't think twice about it. DD was my little monkey for a while.
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  • I call dd monkey, monk and monks. Primarily because she's a climber and curious. Would've never thought about someone being offended.
  • Thanks @missgpsu‌ and @CatieG‌ I was wondering if I missed something because I had never made a correlation between those two uses of that word.
  • I've called my ds1 monkey since he was born and Turkey lips. Yes, turkey lips!! Cause we all know turkey's have lips. There for a while I had stopped and he reminded me how much he missed it and loved it when I called him turkey lips lol.
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  • I call D booby. I may even do it in public. Heck even her grandmother calls her booby! Is this a sexually offensive name?

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  • jennlinjennlin member
    edited July 2014
    *raises hand*

    yes, monkey is a "racial slur"..but only if you use it that way....i have no problem with anyone calling their babies monkey........but i've been called monkey a couple times in my life by dickweeds in the past, and i specifically do not call my kids monkeys because of this. i know, it's sad that i'm letting those people change my life..but...that's what happened. racism hurts, even when you're 10 (the last time i was called monkey).


  • vvg28vvg28 member
    I have called DS spider monkey because of the way the climbs up and down me. I never thought twice about it myself. I'm with everyone else - intent is what really makes the difference.

     

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