disrepectful members

selmasowavy · July 2014

I only same here because i need support after my loss from the tic after a loss forum however those women were cruel and disrespectful to me it was 3 of them down my throats, and they should be reported. I hope I can find support here even tho Im not pregnant. Hopefully this month tho,

wendyld · July 2014

So, you're here to preemptively scold? I'm confused.

KMW08 · July 2014

A majority of us come from the ttcal board, so don't be hating on those ladies. You're not making a good impression here either so far.

*heads to ttcal to see what's up*

selmasowavy · July 2014

*im only here

selmasowavy · July 2014

I'm only here for support not to impress anyone.

KMW08 · July 2014

Nobody on ttcal was disrespectful. They were polite and trying to help you out. As a matter of fact one of those "mean" ladies is a moderator and is far from being a disrespectful person.

They were trying to help you, so you would find better support and vibe with the community.

Punctuation is necessary. Let's eat grandpa! Or Let's eat, grandpa! See the difference? Also a giant wall of text instead of some paragraphs really does make your head hurt.

And as mentioned, baby dust isn't an accepted term around here. Some ladies have the ashes of their babies = actual baby dust.

Nobody is around here to be mean, we've all been through loss, devastation, jealousy and everything that goes with ttcal. We are a bunch of supportive ladies and if you think we are mean just goto babygaga.com or whattoexpect.com

chicagojackie · July 2014

Sorry for your loss. As a responsible community member, however, you have to follow the protocols of the loss boards. They are in place for a reason.

Bashing another board is rude. Why would you continue or mirror the behavior you yourself dislike so much?

2redtulips · July 2014

Everyone here and on TTCAL understands the pain of losing a baby. We have come together in these forums because mutual support from others who have been there can be so helpful in navigating this sometimes painful journey.

I, too, read your thread on TTCAL, and I saw people who were offering genuine advice on how to participate in The Bump community, as well as support for you and your loss.

I am sorry if you are not in a place to hear that advice and receive that support. I wish you well.

selmasowavy · July 2014

People don't understand you can give me advice but please while you do don't be rude.

chicagojackie · July 2014

Guise!! We need to turn this into bingo between the pgal, ttcal and TTGP posts she has been making.

selmasowavy · July 2014

This is exactly what I mean.

2redtulips · July 2014

Not to beat a dead horse, but the ladies on these boards have spent time developing a relationship of trust and support. If you lurk, you will see the overwhelming amount of support offered on the loss boards.

To have a new member come in and bash the TB loss community is really insulting. You arguing with every reply you receive is not going to help at this point.

I am not sure what you hoped to gain by posting here on pgal, but it's really best to just let it be at this point.

2redtulips · July 2014

Ahh, your most recent post on TTGP was enlightening. I agree with the MUD conclusion the ladies over there have drawn.

With that, I'm out.

Poppy715 · July 2014

This is cray! Hey OP guess where the majority of these ladies come from? Also, they are fiercely loyal. This is the the correct board for you. No one was disrespectful. I get that you are hurting but reporting people? Seriously? You need to find those big girl panties stat. And probably take some time to heal.

In other news! What's up all my knocked up bitches!!!!! 8-> :-h

taberbtb · July 2014

Seriously, your post here bashing the TTC board was more innapropriate than the advice you got and perceived to be "rude". Please take PP's advice, GTFO, and check out babygaga or some other site.

Also hi Poppy!! :-h

Poppy715 · July 2014

Her posts on TTGP are out of control. Go look at them. She thought we were mean. Lol. TTGP will eat her alive.

KMW08 · July 2014

Nom nom nom!!

@Poppy715‌ this is for you love!

Poppy715 · July 2014

KMW08 said:

Nom nom nom!!

@Poppy715‌ this is for you love!

K!!!!!!!!! I wish I could lovetit those tits a million times. Miss you my lovely.

ellebelle2384 · July 2014

Wow that TTGP thread is crazy. Sorry all the TTCAL ladies had to deal with that. Hope this girl stays far away from now on.

luciddreamer106 · July 2014

I'm sorry for your loss. I agree with the posters in your other post that seeking professional help would be a good idea. I never did, but I think it would have really benefited from it. I was just scared to take that step.

From reading the post on TTCAL, it looks like you're the only rude one. Those ladies gave you good advice and you only responded with attitude.

Also, it's really not cool to bash another board, especially since a lot of us are friends with the ladies there.

Junebug060609 · July 2014

Lurking to say

Hi @Poppy715‌!

KJsbabe · July 2014

selmasowavy said:

I'm only here for support not to impress anyone.

To get support you have to give support. I've yet to see you give anyone else support. And bashing the TTCAL ladies doesn't make me want to jump at the chance to support you.

Poppy715 · July 2014

Qfrump said:
<yawn>

Whats up @poppy715?

OMG sick. That gif is disgusting. Q, I miss you and your talent for gifs so much.

SuperKim13 · July 2014

What @qfrump said!

Lots of love to the TTCAL lovelies! Hi, Poppy!!!

SandSunBliss · July 2014

:ar!

Hi @poppy715! Miss you love.

secretariat1970 · July 2014

uneek1323 · July 2014

secretariat1970 said:

I've gotten treated the same way...very saddening, I am hurt when going through pregnancy we supposed to feel loved, happy and healthy for the baby to come. eerr hope you feel better I got reamed at today on March 2015 due date club for sticking up for a girl..And am awaiting some helpful comments on the new forums here for my own stuggles...xoxo better days to come though better days..

No one knew what you were talking about on the thread you're referring to on M15. Also, correct use of grammar is important when our only form of communicating is reading each other's words.

secretariat1970 · July 2014

Yeah, well just really wanted to stick up for the girl, sorry if hurt anyone I just didn't like seeing her get hurt to the point where she had to leave but I am also here to apologize as well.

KMW08 · July 2014

Thanks for the QFP @uneek1323‌ ! :-*

And why/how did the WK even find this post anyways? Especially since it's been 4days since it's been posted on. 8-|

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