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Unattractive...

Rayband927Rayband927 member
edited July 2014 in August 2014 Moms
Well I'm 34 weeks pregnant and sexually frustrated!! My husband has not and will not touch me! I'm going crazy. Thanks for making me feel even more unattractive jerk! We've had two children already and I don't remember it being this bad before. I mean he literally will not touch me. I have to pry for a hug. Too many emotions already and now this on top.... Sorry ladies just needed to vent
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  • Weezy56Weezy56 member
    Why does your husband say he's acting like this? This may not be what you want to hear, but if he will literally not even touch you that should raise some major red flags.

    I get the lack of sex. I've always had a high drive but now I feel huge and gross and it's the last thing on my mind. However, ya'll should be intimate in other ways, even if it's just kissing, cuddling, just overall showing affection and him letting you know how much he still desires and appreciates you.

    You should not put up with this behavior. You should not have to be prying for a hug, especially when you are carrying his child. That's ridiculous and makes me wonder what's going on with him. I hope ya'll are able to sort this out.


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  • poofwokpoofwok member
    It sounds like you and your husband need a good talk. You'll probably get a lot more insight on the situation from him then us.
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    Yes, talk to him.
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  • amandager99amandager99 member
    I'm sorry, I completely understand. Welcome to my world, it's been like this since we found out I was pregnant. It took me months to get used to it and not take it personally. Due to a previous loss I am on complete pelvic rest, this completely freaks my husband out. Basically he can't think of and doesn't want to do anything that could lead him to thinking of sex, since it's something we can't do. It hurts some days still, but I've just had to learn it's not personal.
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