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PT v. FT

I have been with my current law firm for over 7 years.  When we moved 2 years ago they allowed me to switch offices and mantain my position, docket clerk/paralegal.  I currently work 32 hours 4 days a week (I switched from FT to PT after my son was born, now 3 years old.)  However, my commute takes anywhere from 45 mins an hour & half.  I recently learned about a job opportunity 10 mins from my house but it would be FT 40 hours M-F.  The position is personal assistant/HR.  My city is smaller and there aren't a lot of job opportunities close to home.  I am torn because I love my mommy day at home with my son, and am due 8/4 with my second, but I HATE my commute.  It stresses me out and leaves me exhausted when I get home.  Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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Re: PT v. FT

  • This is advice from someone who had a horriable commute and who has had Fridays off in the past.  Go with the 40 hour a week job close to home.  The amount of time you save commuting long-term is way better than the 8 hours you are losing.  If you do the math using  2 hours a day 4 days a week that is 8 hours lost to commuting.  Where as with the new job you may lose 8 hours on Friday but it is only a 2 hour difference because your commute per week will be less than an hour and a half. 
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  • PP have made good points. Have you looked at how much PTO you will have? Can you negotiate getting a little more PTO so you can take some days off to be with your family?

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  • I'd ask if there's any chance in the future they'd be willing to work with you on a flexible schedule, or if anyone else in their office has a PT or work from home schedule. Maybe you have to do FT the first year, then once you prove yourself you can earn more flexibility?

    I switched jobs about 2 years ago and went from a 3 day/wk to 5 day/wk schedule.  As much as I liked the 3 day work week, I really really needed to make a change.  After a year in my new job, I negotiated to go to a 4 day/wk schedule.  

    I also agree with PP that you should negotiate for more PTO up front to give you more flexibility.
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