So AF is on it's way and Friday I have my annual exam with my gyno. In January at my post op appointment, I got the RN who seemed to think without a tube I wouldn't even O every month (yeah) and gave me the "plan" of come back when you're KU.
Well now for my own sanity, I need a better plan and my question is: what the hell do I ask for? And if they don't want to help me should I just go to an RE?
Thank you ladies!
"Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels.
**All After a Loss Welcome**
BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
Re: One Tube Ladies (PGAL lurkers too please)
DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
BFP #1 9/6/2009 EDD 5/29/10. Missy Moo born 5/12/10 after 3 months of bedrest due to PTL, IC and a bicornuate ute causing IUGR
BFP # 2 1/28/12 EDD 10/6/12 No heartbeat seen @ 10 weeks, Autumn
BFP #3 8/18/12 EDD 5/2/13 No heartbeat seen at 7w3d, Mae
BFP #4 01/31/2013 EDD 10/15/2013 No HB seen in our little girl at 10w2d due to trisomy 12, Abigail
BFP #5 6/27/2013 EDD 3/10/2014 diagnosed with protein S deficiency heparin twice a day. Luke's HB stopped at 8wks
BFP#6 12/22/2013 EDD 9/4/2014 No HB seen at 7w2d, Leia
BFP #7- 5/12/14 EDD 01/2015, ruptured ectopic 5/31/14
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
TTCAL BLOG
All ALers welcome!
BFP #2 5/7/13 EDD 1/14/2014 Ectopic discovered 5/21/13, lost left tube
Referred to RE, blood work done August 2013, AMH 0.27, all else normal, HSG clear
Hey love!
My re and I discussed at length what it would mean to concieve with only one functioning tube. She doesn't believe that it decreases your chances by 50% (as do most doctors) for two reasons: you don't necessarily o on alternating sides each cycle and, like others mentioned, there is a slight chance that your good tube can pick up the egg from the other side.
After getting a second opinion, my re and I decided to go with a clomid cycle- the thought being that I would have a higher chance of releasing an egg on my functioning side. (And you know how that worked for me.)
I wish you luck and love and if there is anytime you need to talk, feel free to pm me.
Eta: I second @mlal78 with respect to an hsg and SA before clomid. And also wanted to add that there are a number of ladies on the secondary infertility board with only one tube. And they helped me immensely
I would seek a second opinion regarding my options with an RE or MFM physician, or at least a second OB. Best of luck to you.
BFP #2: m/c at 7w, February, 2014
BFP #3: It's a BOY! Please be our rainbow! Due February, 2015
*everyone always welcome*
I have one tube as well and was told it does not effect ovulation at all and also it does not decrease feetility by 50%. My re's plan was clomid to make the eggs release from both sides but upon monitoring he saw I was already ovulating from my good side anyways. One tube isn't a fertility death sentence at all. Good luck!
Me (30) DH (31) Married 5/13, TTC since 2/13
BFP # 3, EDD 2/21/15 * please be our rainbow*BFP #1 Blighted Ovum resulting in D&C on 11/1/13
BFP #2 Ectopic Pg, lap surgery on 3/12/14, R tube removed
I lost my right tube due to an ectopic in October 10, but have had 3 pregnancies since. My two boys and another baby I recently miscarried at 9 weeks.
I have both ovaries and ovulate every month. From what I understand (from my doctor)10-15 percent of the time your opposite tube will pick up your egg. The other thing that happens is that your blood flow to the side you lost changes and over time you will be less likely to ovulate from that side. It's a similar phenomenon to some ladies having their tubes tied and going into menopause. So really your chances aren't cut in half.
FWIW you probably don't need an RE, just monitored cycles, and maybe clomid if your not ovulating on your remaining side. I actually have gotten pregnant more easily with 1 tube than when I had 2.
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
TTCAL BLOG
All ALers welcome!
A lot of OBs will do ultrasounds to see what side you ovulate, when you ovulate, and what the follies look like. Mine also offered monitored clomid cycles as well if I didn't ovulate on the left (my remaining) side. I would never suggest going somewhere where they offer it like candy.
I didn't do any monitoring with my youngest and my miscarriage. I was able to get pregnant with 1 tube 3 times. I do however know from my post op that the remaining tube is normal. If she isn't sure of the condition of her remaining tube she should get a hsg along with finding out what side she ovulates from each month. If there's an issue after several months than she should go to an RE or qualified doctor. I think her nurse is crazy.
BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!