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10 things that piss you off

We havent done this in awhile so lets make a list of things that piss us off

1. People who light off firworks in town

2. People who are perpetually late

3. People who are indesicive.

4. Bfs roommate in general but her bitching about how hard it is to be a single mom. While bfs parents were watching her son so she could get smashed and bf perpetually helps with her son.

5. People commenting on how shy bentley is and telling me i need to.socialize him.

6. My butt hole is freaking itchy

7. Going through withdrawl because im going to quit smoking. Again.

8. The fact i go back to school monday

9. The fact im still hung over

10. Ds refusing to sit in his booster seat or get his diaper change
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Re: 10 things that piss you off

  • Lol @ the butt hole comment.

    1, 2, 3, & 10 from your list are on mine as well, so I'll just add 6 more.

    1. BD's goddamn mother.

    2. My shitty car.

    3. My dad creeping up behind me because he wants to watch DD fall asleep. Because he's a creep.

    4. Also, when my dad says things like "is that my sexy girl?" Like it's not inappropriate to say that to a toddler. So awkward.

    5. Hot weather. I can't stand heat.

    6. My job. I was in the process of seeking new employment when I found out I was prego, and decided that I needed to stay for the time being.
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  • @20thirteen i shaved mine because i was shaving my genetalia and well its fucking itchy now.

    Id feel very weird if someone called my toddler sexy.
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  • tig594tig594 member
    1. That you only are letting us list 10 things. 2. Being broke. 3. Deadbeat sperm donors. 4. People who make much less than I do and have more kids than I do but continue to brag about how they are going on vacation, just got a brand new major appliance, blew $1000 on a new vacuum (seriously!) while I am as financially responsible as I can possibly be and still struggle. 5. The dog for barking at other stupid dogs walking by right after I get DD down for a nap. 6. Inconsiderate asshole neighbors lighting firework and/or partying outside when the rest of the neighborhood is trying to sleep because WE HAVE JOBS. 7. Mosquitos 8. Struggling to get rid of my bad attitude. 9. Women who let themselves be used and abused by men because they think they HAVE TO HAVE A MAN in their lives to be happy. 10. People who can't take responsibility for their actions/mistakes and have to blame everyone else for the stupid shit they choose to do.
  • tig594tig594 member
    tig594 said:
    1. That you only are letting us list 10 things. 2. Being broke. 3. Deadbeat sperm donors. 4. People who make much less than I do and have more kids than I do but continue to brag about how they are going on vacation, just got a brand new major appliance, blew $1000 on a new vacuum (seriously!) while I am as financially responsible as I can possibly be and still struggle. 5. The dog for barking at other stupid dogs walking by right after I get DD down for a nap. 6. Inconsiderate asshole neighbors lighting firework and/or partying outside when the rest of the neighborhood is trying to sleep because WE HAVE JOBS. 7. Mosquitos 8. Struggling to get rid of my bad attitude. 9. Women who let themselves be used and abused by men because they think they HAVE TO HAVE A MAN in their lives to be happy. 10. People who can't take responsibility for their actions/mistakes and have to blame everyone else for the stupid shit they choose to do.
    I have no idea why that posted all screwed up.  Oh well.  I'm off to catch up on some PLL.
  • @20thirteen i shaved mine because i was shaving my genetalia and well its fucking itchy now.

    Id feel very weird if someone called my toddler sexy.

    @Tig594 by all means post more then ten! I wont stop you. I have another. Bfs ex(and bm) wants us to be friends.
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  • I did tell my dad that it wasn't appropriate and people would think he was some sort of child molester if he talked like that in public. Even though he has. While I was pregnant, I met up with my dad and a friend of his at a local ice cream place and he started talking about this "sexy biker guy" he had a picture of to his friend... It was a picture my SIL took of my nephew, she put all these temporary tattoos all over him and he looked like a little badass in the pic, but, I mean... Awkward... His friend even looked at him funny. Like, this is *not* shit you say about children. Especially if you're related to them.
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  • @20Thirteen yeah you just dont say that stuff about kids at all ever
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    WTF is with your dad @20Thirteen? Geezus. 

    1.) People who lie
    2.) People who spread rumors or thus make themselves look super uneducated
    3.) My piece of shit, no ac, two door, humdinger of a car
    4.) The fact MC gets to enjoy his life and not pay me one fucking dime and I'm struggling this week to decide to buy groceries.
    5.) My US Constitution class
    6.) Also late people. That's one thing I learned while being married to MC bc in the military, on time is late. So I'm always 5-10 minutes early places. One of my girl friends is notoriously late. She is 32 and can't get her shit together. Like every single time. I tell her to meet me at 11 or I'm leaving without her ass, she says she's leaving, I wait 5 minutes, tell her we're heading to the car, I then tell her we're leaving bc she's now 10 minutes late, then she's like WHAT YOU REALLY LEFT? Ummm yeah...because for the 583958305 time, I'm not doing this again.
    7.) Having to stay up every night until 1030 pumping when I don't get but a couple ounces and then seeing these bitches on FB who have entire deep freezers full of BM after like 2 weeks. (I've tried everything and next is Gatorade if I can afford to get some)
    8.) The fact that sometimes, I miss MC and wish we were back together again. HOW FUCKED IS THAT!?!?
    9.) The fact a good nights sleep is no more.
    10.) Being broke as hell. ALL. OF. THE. TIME. and my family not ever in my life just "gifting" me some money to help me out of the hole. My dad has $$$$$$$$$$$$ and knows I've been driving without AC for 3 years and now have a baby, but won't just nicely send me $1,000 to get it fixed. I'm in school, I'm working, I'm busting my ass and always have been. ALWAYS. But when I ask to BORROW money, it's like the end of the world and he flips shits and I MUST pay him the EXACT amount back ASAP in full. It's just ridiculous and pisses me off when I see people's parents who bend over backwards to help their kids.

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  • 1. Mosquitos
    2. Seeing in tact perfectly happy families on fb. (I realize people wouldn't post a bad pic so that's not an accurate indication)
    3. The fact that I do feel I need a man in my life to be happy
    4. My dumb ass ex not following the rules of life
    5. My job cut my hours big time
    6. That I am not independently wealthy
    7. Looking for a new place to live and having to sell this one
    8. People who eat while on the phone
    9. The new guy I'm dating lives over 300 miles away
    10. My Stepdads (both)
  • Hugs @LovelyRitaMeterMaid‌ dating again can be hard. And for awhile you will compare all guys to him. But eventually it will stop.

    And eventually it wont make you made to think of him dating and fucking
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  • @LovelyRitaMeterMaid‌ I found a free online internet dating add. His ideal date was exactly what we did the night he proposed. He's an asshole. But jt hurt my heart.

    However now I'm dating and fucking and it hurts a lot less!
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    Here's one more.  My cousin called me over an hour ago wanting to go to the beach.  I said ok and she said she'd be leaving by 1:30 and would call when she left since DD is taking a nap.  It's now 2:10.  She isn't answering her phone which is so irritating.  I assume she's just going to show up whenever and expect me to be ready.  Well, DD is still napping so F you.   I'm sick of waiting for my own family who takes FOR-EV-ER to get the F around to do anything!

     

    OMG.  She just texted.  I think she's on her way since she said she forgot to grab swim diapers for the little ones.  The store by me is out of them.   8-|

  • I have another. Bfs family is REALLY pushing for bf and i to get engaged amd married in the next year and im really sick of hearing them tell us "but its been nine years you should know by now." Your right. And we do know. But we also know we want to have our lives more settled before settling down. So please stop pushing.

    And for the record, bfs said he plans on proposing within a year of my graduating from school so his family needs to cool it
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  • Hugs @lovelyritametermaid. It's so hard when it's all new. 
    And @20thirteen your dad is creepy. Kids are not and never will be sexy.

    Here's my ten:
    1. DD's attitude this morning.
    2. When XH was here, DD wasn't listening to him and he came to me and asked me for help getting her to listen. DUDE. YOU ARE HER DAD. PUT YOUR DAMN FOOT DOWN.
    3. When XH was here, I was taking an nap for the first time in forever, and he fucking fell asleep on the couch so DD came in and woke me up.
    4. The lady who cut my hair last weekend cut it way shorter than I asked for.
    5. The fact that XH let DD go two days without a bath, after she'd been outside/at the beach/running around getting dirty and sweaty, and when I asked him why his answer was that she really didn't want a bath. And then got mad at me for asking.
    6. Liars and cheaters.
    7. When my house is a mess.
    8. The fact that it was my first anniversary since XH and I split up and out of all of my friends and family, only one person, my BFF, checked in with me (she lives 3 hours away, though she's moving back this week). I could have used a friend that day. This really should be first on the list.
    9. My sister's dog. (see #7 for explanation)
    10. Ignorance and bigotry.
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  • 1. I'm tired. All the time.

    2. My son is never tired.

    3. STBXH spent $30 on his fucking hair. This man didn't bathe or brush his teeth the last month I was with him.

    4. Because he spent the money on his hair, he can't pay a bill that he's supposed to that's in my name so I have to.

    5. I work with only females and they have so much drama that I just don't GAF about.

    6. Divorces being so expensive.

    7. Missing him even though he obviously has no interest in being a father so I don't want him as a husband.

    8. My phone never has signal and I can't afford a new provider.

    9. That criminal minds isn't on every hour of the day.

    10. And that I am not super skinny after working out for 2 weeks.
  • I will see if I can find 10 things that piss me off…<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />

     

    1.       I hate shuffling all of my bills around all the time. I haven’t paid my car note in forever, had to just  downgrade my insurance to get coverage and I still don’t know how I am going to pay my babysitter more money.

    2.       I am pissed off at myself because I am still too much of a chickenshit to tell my ex I need help with the babysitting expenses. I don’t know if I can emotionally handle the argument.

    3.       I cant key up the SUV on Rims that is sitting in the driveway of the house. It is constant reminder that I am financially unstable and he is sitting on top of the freaking world.

    4.       I still love him and I still want him back. So many times I have contemplated simply begging him to move back home and asking for another chance.

    5.       I am pissed that I am still holding on to most of the burden on the fall of the relationship.

    6.       I am in a dead-end job and the hopes of getting out are getting slimmer and slimmer. I feel like I went to college for nothing

    7.       Myself again because I am liking this other guy way too much and I shouldn’t. I am not supposed to. It is too soon.

    8.       That the rest of the Lil Emperor’s teeth are coming in… AT THE SAME DAMN TIME!!!! Which makes for a cranky toddler and for him waking up during the night.

    9.       That I am not in my hometown so my parents and family could help out with The Lil Emperor. My cousin’s get to use my mom all the time and I don’t.

           10.That the ex hasn’t had anyone come cut the damn yard!!!! The back yard looks like    a damn wheat field and I am tired of grasshoppers jumping up in the front yard.
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  • @starrdiva211‌ #7 it is not too soon
    #9 can't you go back home?
    #10 my ex did the same thing so I hired the landscapers back. I'm praying the court will make him pay up for that!
  • @20Thirteen i thought of you in a weird way earlier. One of my nephews(the eight year old) told me a friend of mine is sexy. I laughed askes him if he knew what that meant he said yea it means shes pretty. Thats what my dad calls my mom.

    It was weird hearing a kid say an adult was sexy. I cant imagine it the other way around
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  • Hahaha, wow, I can't imagine hearing a little kid call *anyone* sexy! Awkward!!
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    @starrdiva211‌ #7 it is not too soon #9 can't you go back home? #10 my ex did the same thing so I hired the landscapers back. I'm praying the court will make him pay up for that!
    @freeatlast2014 #9... Hometown is 315 miles away from where I am now. I think about it all the time though. But with all of The Lil Emperor's therapies and the job market back home, I am just not very comfortable. #10... I asked him who had cut the yard the last time and he said a guy he use to work with. I dont know what the damn hold up is but as soon as I find an extra $25.00, I might call someone.
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  • @starrdiva211‌ #7 it is not too soon #9 can't you go back home? #10 my ex did the same thing so I hired the landscapers back. I'm praying the court will make him pay up for that!
    @freeatlast2014 #9... Hometown is 315 miles away from where I am now. I think about it all the time though. But with all of The Lil Emperor's therapies and the job market back home, I am just not very comfortable. #10... I asked him who had cut the yard the last time and he said a guy he use to work with. I dont know what the damn hold up is but as soon as I find an extra $25.00, I might call someone.
    Can you cut it yourself? During the little guy's naptime maybe? Just a thought :)
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  • @LovelyRitaMeterMaid‌ hugs im glad you have your daughter its hard to have no emotial support
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  • becwheat said:

    9. Being horny in the afternoon. I am ready to go at this time most days, but I am working! By the evening I am tired and all I want is to relax and sleep.


    10. Not winning the lottery
    Both of these, for real.
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  • @starrdiva211‌ #7 it is not too soon
    #9 can't you go back home?
    #10 my ex did the same thing so I hired the landscapers back. I'm praying the court will make him pay up for that!

    @freeatlast2014 #9... Hometown is 315 miles away from where I am now. I think about it all the time though. But with all of The Lil Emperor's therapies and the job market back home, I am just not very comfortable. #10... I asked him who had cut the yard the last time and he said a guy he use to work with. I dont know what the damn hold up is but as soon as I find an extra $25.00, I might call someone.


    @starrdiva211‌ that's tough. I do not envy your situation!
  • 1. the thousands of CS debt ex will never pay

    2. the weight gain i cannot shed

    3. DDs sudden battle with sleep

    4. there are not enough hours in the day

    5. working mama guilt

    6. MY parents- every favor they ever do is thrown in my face forever.

    7. im broke and i need new summer work clothes

    8. dd is already making a complete mess of the new house

    9. BILLS

    10. dd is my world and is not even on a list of priorities for BD ( she deserves so much better)


    that was actually very therapeutic!!!!

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  • septmom11 said:

    that was actually very therapeutic!!!!

    I feel like this is something we should do often, because it really is.
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